In high school I was teased by some students including girls because I was fat, nerdy, and had glasses. However while attending college away I lifted weights, joined boxing, and now dress with the best urban gear. I now am able to get any woman I want and when I came back home I rejected and nsulted those girls who teased me in high school that now want me and they was upset and felt bad that I did that to them. Is this great revenge?
2007-03-09 12:17:46 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nope.The best revenge is just to live well.
2007-03-09 12:24:36 · answer #1 · answered by redman 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no it isn't. Revenge is never good. though it may seem so at first. Even though some people made fun of you in high school doesn't mean you should do things so you can get back at them. Do them for you.
Sure it's good that you're in good physical condition but insulting those girls really wasn't necessary. You should always be happy with who you are and don't let people get to you. Everyone gets insulted at one point or another it's how you react to that makes a difference. Don't dwell on it and move on.
2007-03-09 12:36:29 · answer #2 · answered by The Flying Porcupine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are better than that don't turn to be like them. The best revenge is to show them u are successful and acts accordingly to your new look. Be involve with the less popular kids as you know how it feels to be rejected. Use that situation to make you better and use that negative energy to do good deeds.
2007-03-09 12:28:06 · answer #3 · answered by Unlucky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
revenge is never good for n e one sure they might have teased u but u have showed them that u are a good loking person now u should have acted superior to them instead or lowering yourself like u did.. i would suggest to try to make friends with them and u will hear their side of the story besides like i say the past is in the past better to live for the present and the future... good luck with everything =)
2007-03-09 12:24:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really. You can tell them that old hurts keep you from wanting to get close to them now, but why be mean about it? They were stupid teenagers THEN. What would be a valid excuse for doing something mean NOW? There really isn't any, unless you did not grow up after high school.
2007-03-09 12:23:54 · answer #5 · answered by snoweagleltd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't beat yourself up over it. I'm sure they more stupid than anything, they brought your rejection on themselves. Be sure they don't feel as hurt as do did when they teased and taunted you in HS. Insults may have been overboard, the rejection would've done just the job and within you're fair right to do so.
2007-03-09 12:26:33 · answer #6 · answered by Gentle Kara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What gos around comes around and those girls are now getting a little of what they put out on you and I think that is great if you call it revenge than so be it,isn't it great that their time came to be turned down and hurt.
2007-03-09 12:22:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
hey I am in the same situation, at least I feel that way, But ya know I feel that you should show them a nite, just to make it worst and let them see what it wouldv'e been like had they not been b!tch3s hahaha..make them want you more and regret it more and who knows maybe you'll even havee a good time haha and hey hey hey this is the karma right here..your coming back around to bite them back haha
2007-03-09 12:22:23 · answer #8 · answered by Mystery Man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can tell you're not a mean person just because you're asking this question. I say dont be a jerk, but you dont have to go out of your way to be nice. Kind of the same thing happened to me and you wouldnt believe how happy i am i forgave thepoeple who were jerks to me. turns out theyre not that bad.
2007-03-09 12:24:17 · answer #9 · answered by Breaker's Lax Rules!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is. Good for you. Those are the kind of girls who are divorced with 3 kids and overweight by the time they are 35.
2007-03-09 12:21:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋