my boyfriend often gets jealous
he says i flirt with everyone but the thing is i dont realise it...i feel bad bcuz he thinks im flirting with everyone but thats just the way i am i cant help it
i also have this really good guy friend that he thinks i like..the problem is i think my guy friend likes me bcuz hes always being playful and stuff but he was never like that before i started dating my boyfriend
Help
wut should i do
2007-03-09 12:15:29 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stop flirting, girl :-)
Try to turn your focus toward your BF in social situations, and make sure he FEELS like your choice.
If he can't even trust you, that means he sure as heck can't verify that you even acknowledge him when he's not around. You can never blame someone for being jealous.
It happens for 2 reasons: 1) Because of behavior towards others, which simply cant go on your whole life. 2) Because you haven't proven your devotion. People who have proven their devotion fully usually don't even worry when their spouses are open or friendly with others, because they know that they themselves get so much better, and are regarded the highest by far.
It's just a proven thing that shuts out all suspicion, and it comes from your attitude and care towards him (and him to you - I'm sure you don't suspect him of anything, just because of how jealous he is. There are many behavioral things like that that can prove one's self).
So, back to the drawing board. :-) If there's one thing I can say for certain, it's that partnership with a man is a life-long thing, so your behavior is going to have to change sooner or later. It can't go on like this, because most men would take it exactly the same way.
I mean, your nick is SweetXXXbrunette... that would scare me if my GF was parading around on the net, drawing that kind of attention to herself. Those kinds of things should be secret, and kept for the person you love, or you'll scare them, which causes serious, damaging worry problems.
There's nothing more insecure than thinking you may be cheated on, or that your partner has the potential to cheat, and only you can reverse it.
Good luck with it. :-)
2007-03-09 12:25:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first off your most likely right about your friend, he most likely did like you and now he knows your with your boyfriend and he's trying harder to get your attention. As for your boyfriend being jealious, that's also very likely but you may just have a way with that, nothing against you but some people have that type of personality, very sociable and friendly. As long as you are true to him why worry. But if your other guy friend likes you he's pushing buttoms to get rid of the boyfriend. He's jealious too. So you have two guys that like you and now it's time to make a desision who stays friend and who gets you heart for now. Best of luck, peace.
2007-03-09 20:23:52 · answer #2 · answered by ~* Garden Empress*~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
chill take a deep breath, get a friend that is close to guy that you think likes you on three way and ask away. your bf is jealous bc you probably do flirt just like any other girl on the planet
2007-03-09 20:18:41 · answer #3 · answered by C.W. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy will kill any relationship quicker than you can count to 100.It is immature and shows he has not grown up.Do not stife your personalitysounds like you are simply an outgoing person who enjoys the company of the people you are with.Tell him about it point blank and how it hurts you that he does not trust you.If he does not accept who you are then it is time to move on.
2007-03-09 20:23:33 · answer #4 · answered by thomas c 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Every relationship should have communation, loyalty, compassion, good listener, and trust. If he doesnt trust you with other guys and gets jealous, then i dont think you should be with him. You need to be with someone who can trust you and he doesnt. If you dont want to breakup, try communicating, it takes work but tell him. Its okay, you can trust me, im not that kind of girl.
2007-03-09 20:19:10 · answer #5 · answered by glamourous_aspen 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stop being a flirt...why don't you put yourself in your bf's shoes... I bet you anymuch that you would feel the same way he does.
2007-03-09 20:18:21 · answer #6 · answered by ~mother of 2 beautiful girls~ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well you should talk to your boy friend and dump him because being jealous af his grilfriend its not good . and about your friend do you like him or onley as a frien if you like him talk to him and se what he says
2007-03-09 20:27:05 · answer #7 · answered by karina p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first thing is do not play games with them or yourself. stop and really ask yourself do you like your boyfriend as a casual relationship or is it serious. and go on from there
2007-03-09 20:23:18 · answer #8 · answered by needtoknow 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should get rid of your present boyfriend,he sounds controlling.And then maybe you could start up with your guy friend.Good luck.
2007-03-09 20:19:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I dont know try talking to your mother.
2007-03-09 20:18:13 · answer #10 · answered by James W 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋