imturning 14 nd i love him soo much but i cant date so i dunt see him at all nd my parents wont let me date til 15. i know that its love cuz i would of known a long time ago that it wasnt. so plz help me
2007-03-09 12:11:48 · 14 answers · asked by LiL'Br!na 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im 13 turning 14 nd i've been dating this boy for about 8 months nd i told my parents but they said that he's stupid nd they dunt even know him it makes me mad cuz they're judging sumone they never even gave a chance nd i know its love nd people might say im too young to know but im the most mature of all my friends and i know wut this is becuz even tho we try hard with our relationship its tricky. he's my bestest friend nd helps me out with everything nd makes me make good decisions like for ex.- i wanted to skip school but he said i could he said he wouldnt let me now doesnt that tell u sumthing? nd ther have been many occassions like that i juss get soo depressed cuz im not seeing him. im not stupid nd i am gonna wait till u know wen nd he respects that nd will wait but i juss need sum tips from the public cuz i use to go to movies wit him nd friends but im not aloud anymore cuz my parents know now nd they are realy strict i juss need to be with him when im not i wanna cry forever
2007-03-09 12:30:31 · update #1
Maybe they'll let u go on group dates
2007-03-09 12:15:10 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try sitting down with your parents and having and open and honest discussion with them about your feelings and your need to explore them. Lying will not get you anywhere so sneaking around with him will only lead to them not trusting you if they ever found out. If they said you cant date until your 14 it was for a reason. Maybe they will not let you go out alone with this guy , but you can try and see if they will allow a group date , with maybe you and 2-3 other couples/friends. also another alternative could be to see him in the afternoon rather than at night , they might not be as opposed to an afternoon lunch/movie date as they will be to one at night. good luck
2007-03-09 12:19:52 · answer #2 · answered by femmegoddess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Act mature take on more responsibility and show your parents that u can handle this with out disturbing school and your shores. I always clean the kitchen for my mom and made her feel I earn to go out with friends to the movies that show her i was responsible and earn to have a good time. But always remember curfews and respect to your parents not looking slutty.
2007-03-09 12:19:48 · answer #3 · answered by Unlucky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok i hate to say it but ur parents are right u shouldnt date till ur atleast ur 16 ur parents are being nice with 15 jeeze my parents wont let me date till im 17!!!!...and even if u think its the love of ur life ur only 13...lots of things change between now and when u become an adult...so u can keep liking him...and go out with a group....but nothing serious...be safe and dont be stupid....
2007-03-09 12:15:54 · answer #4 · answered by Rachel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're TURNING 14? That means that right now, you are only 13.
If you were my kid, you wouldn't be able to date till you are 16, so your folks are a bit more liberal than I would be.
You're too young to know what real love is all about. Forget about it.
2007-03-09 12:17:29 · answer #5 · answered by kiwi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, if it's love and he's the love of your life, you can wait the however-many-months and you should be glad as hell that your parents will let you date when you are 15. The love of your life should be nice as hell to your parents, too, dear...
2007-03-09 12:16:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really like htis boy then talk to ur parents about him and try to convince them to let u go out wiht this boy... maybe ur parents will approve or just get a group of friends to hang out and invite him. you can leave the group during it and just hang out with the guy ur crushing on
2007-03-09 12:16:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried talking to your parents?
Maybe instead of dating, your boyfriend can come over once a week for dinner and games with the family.
Just talk to them though. Be an adult, act like an adult, and be treated like an adult.
2007-03-09 12:15:25 · answer #8 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant say that he is the love of your life. You will meet many people and come across so many situations and you will realize when you really loved someone and when you didnt.
2007-03-09 12:16:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your parents that you really like this boy and ask if you can invite him over to dinner at your house or something. They might let you date him if you let them meet him first and talk to him
2007-03-09 12:16:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋