Alright, Is it being dishonest to a boyfriend//girlfriend to not tell them every single thought that pops in your head every day is it? because I mean they are your thoughts and thoughts get pretty wild & crazy at times, are you entitled to your privacy about those things? because I mean they're only thoughts.. or am I wrong about this?
2007-03-09 12:05:20 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no you are right..your thoughts are your own..but if you act them and not tell then it is dishonest ..........my goodness if we all confessed our thoughts all the time ........nothing would ever get done we would be too busy apologizing..LOL
2007-03-09 12:11:34 · answer #1 · answered by connie b 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are imits.
for me im married to a guy who wants to know what i did in detail . Now try to have that and have bad memory. NO fun, lol
Some thoughts you keep privet, that makes you , you. If you blab everythng out. then who are you? Your personality and everything wouldnt be so interesting if you said everythingh on mind. YOur not You. So its good to keep some things locked up.
Yeah i have wild thoughts but i dont say them, there my thoughts. No one elses.
2007-03-09 20:11:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ARE you CRAZY????!!!!
you going to tell her everything you are thinking about , you might as well start looking for a hobby....
FOR EXAMPLE:(you thing that she tells you if/when she is checking out another guy.........(what's she thinking???!))) As long as they are thoughts and not actions .......(it's ok)...
I think a little privacy went a long way!!!!!(IF she wants to know all your thoughts ........its A RED FLAG!!!!! run , run while you still can ....... (or she'll turn out like that one girl from wedding crashers( I'LL ... FIND ... YOU )(said in a loud crazy shriek)
HOPE this helps!!!!
2007-03-09 20:09:20 · answer #3 · answered by DOC Holliday 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? This sounds like rather an immature question.
Of course we never tell someone else ALL our thoughts.
I've been married for 43 years, and I haven't told my husband every single thing I think. I am sure he doesn't tell me all of his, either. We are constantly surprising each other .
2007-03-09 20:09:37 · answer #4 · answered by kiwi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course its ok to have your own thoughts!!
What goes on in your own mind, is yours and only yours.
Its totally up to you what you want to reveal...she or he isnt a mind reader are they?
Also no one should be putting this sort of pressure on you to tell your every thought anyway!! to high maintenance !!
2007-03-09 20:11:45 · answer #5 · answered by pina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thoughts are personal and private share them when you want to. if a girlfriend/boyfriend asks what you are thinking lie to them and gain some points flatter their ego .
2007-03-09 20:12:05 · answer #6 · answered by jimmythejock 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Somethings are better left unsaid. Then again if your taughts are about hurting others or yourself and you may act on them tell a shrink.
2007-03-09 20:09:47 · answer #7 · answered by jrgonz454 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not at all you dont hav to tell them everyting that you think you should stil hav yo privacy!
~Tha One and Only~
2007-03-09 20:10:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is very controling if the other person wants to know all your thoughts
2007-03-09 20:07:56 · answer #9 · answered by forget_me_not 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Totally man. Dump her, she sounds obsessive-compulsive.
2007-03-09 20:07:55 · answer #10 · answered by chrisatmudd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋