Basically I have been hanging out with this guy. We have just made out, nothing more. The thing is he is out of my league. I was the girl in high school was teased constantly, now this hot, really nice guy wants me? By the way I am 20 now. Is it possible I changed that much since high school.
2007-03-09 11:51:19 · 16 answers · asked by annonymus 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I did not go to high school with this guy but he is definately out of my league. I just met him a couple weeks ago at work.
2007-03-09 11:53:16 · update #1
Yes it's possible. I've seen girls that look so so become real knock outs. Then again maybe you just look good...and he really likes you for you. Either way it's a good thing.
2007-03-09 11:54:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have had a similar experience and all I can say is if he is into you now why not enjoy it? I mean when my guy and I were going out I was in party mode and he was in his 2nd year of college. He was buff, and I was not. He was everything that I thought that I didn't deserve, and you know what? I broke it off with him because I didn't feel that I was good enough. I regret it, not that I don't like my life now, cause I do very much. I just wonder sometimes how different my life would have been had I had the courage and strength to walk through my fear of not being good enough...who knows.
Enjoy life as it happens and don't worry about the future or the past. Most of the time if I really look at life in the here and now I am okay and so are you...it is when I am trying to fix and figure out that life becomes overwhelming and confusing.
I wish you the best of luck.
2007-03-09 20:00:15 · answer #2 · answered by akkrisgru 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no such thing as "out of my league" Everyone is the same. No stupid guy is any better than you. That's a total high school thing. If you have made out, but you think it means nothing more to him, and you like him more then just some fling, then confront him. You have nothing to lose. Because if i guy just makes out with a girl for no reason, he's just some git, and not worth your time.
2007-03-09 19:58:05 · answer #3 · answered by Taylor 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well take the time to try and get to know one another. some guys are chasing after one thing only. you have to think highly of yourself! people feed off of your outlook when it comes down to who you are. someone who hold their head up high, and isnt cocky about it, usually gets the right kind of friends and lovers down the road.
why does he like you? is he looking for something much more, does me just want sex, ask yourself all these questions and then maybe you can find the answer. we all cant look flawless, but with what we have is what people feed off of. personality fuels the fire more than just looks alone. would you date a guy who is HOT but was a JERK ? probably not.
sure, you could have changed, over time we get smarter, and better with how we speak and react to different situations, so who knows. just make sure he his liking the REAL you and not a fake you. also make sure that making out with him is sending sparks in both directions and not jsut one way. its
crappy being used by someone and it does hurt...A LOT
2007-03-09 20:03:14 · answer #4 · answered by brianju 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You change a lot from high school to your 20s. I didn't even date in high school but I was still married at 21.
Nobody is out of your league.. we all our human beings..have a bit more confidence in yourself.. you sound like you need a good shot of self esteem!
2007-03-09 19:55:47 · answer #5 · answered by Tapestry6 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is this nonsense out of your league. You need to be more secure in who you are, whom God made. God doesn't create junk. Did you ever think that perhaps the reason that everyone teased you was because the girls were jealous and the boys were intimidated. Realize you deserve the best. God bless****
2007-03-09 19:59:56 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know what, seriously....just enjoy whatever you get out of it......if you were the one that was teased in high school....maybe its time you have some fun of your own. Take some time to make sure hes not just looking for a "quickie".....and if the coast is clear.....enjoy....just be careful and think about what you are gonna do before you do it :)
2007-03-09 20:02:17 · answer #7 · answered by Bud 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can change that much! Even so, you're still going to lose him, just by thinking like that! Out of my league?
2007-03-09 19:57:55 · answer #8 · answered by the anomaly23 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you madeout he obviously considers you in his league!!
have self confidence i've heard guys say that is the sexiest thing about a woman!! i was like probably the worst looking person in elementary school...now guys ask for my number all the time! and i was suprised at first but you just learn beauty's source IS in the inside...if you believe your beautiful you ARE!!
2007-03-09 19:57:50 · answer #9 · answered by katie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell yes it is!! I think everyone got teased and picked on by someone in high school. Even the popular kids and the jocks had enemies. You are underestimating yourself. The workplace is not like high school. There aren't clicks, popular kids and losers. There are only like minded adults who can enjoy working with each other. Go for it. You have gotten this far so......................................................
2007-03-09 20:05:05 · answer #10 · answered by Janelle S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋