Ok..So here goes. My fiance left me at 7 months pregnant to take a job 2000 miles away with his father..We was still together and then he called last month and broke it off with me. We was together for 7 years, I am 23 and he is 22. He treated me SO good. I know we both have our flaws. Now..He called me last week because he heard from a friend I had been seeing someone..Which I'm not and told him so but he still flipped out. He tells me 3 days ago that he just started "talking" to another girl...I am so hurt. I told him not to contact me again and I will see him when he comes down to see our son being born. He text msged me last night that he isn't happy without me. I didn't send him anything back because I feel like he is playing games with my head. I don't know why I still want him back but I won't let him know that. I just wonder how is it that easy for him to get over the love of his life and his unborn child?
2007-03-09 11:39:27 · 8 answers · asked by angelsdeath420 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
We have had our share of ups and downs..Just like everyone I'm sure. Is he using this other girl to help him get over me? I just don't understand. I want to make us work..not just because of the baby but because I really love this BOY and he says that he loves me. I am hoping he will come to his senses...I want to let go but its really hard because I am so in love with him still. I have been busying myself with my babys room and concentrating on my son. Maybe he has more growing up to do? Any advice would be great, thanks. Oh and we got engaged before the baby and the wedding was almost finished being planned. The Dr. said I could never have babies
2007-03-09 11:40:07 · update #1
It sounds as though your future father-in-law wanted his son to be with him and not with you. Now your fiance is rethinking the situation and wants you back. Both he and you are very hurt over the possibility of the other one getting involved with someone new. Doesn't that tell you that you both have a good chance yet? I suggest you try to get together and make your own plans as soon as you can.
2007-03-09 12:46:18 · answer #1 · answered by rubyred 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did he leave you just for the job or to actually LEAVE you? I wouldn't marry the guy just yet since obviously you have issues to work out but you might consider trying to work it out. Because he's the father of your child he's going to remain a part of your life forever, whether you like it or not. If you still love him and if he loves you then give it a go and see if you guys can work it out. He might have just been scared and overwhelmed at the prospect of fatherhood and started talking to another girl for that reason. It all depends on whether or not you could forgive him if you find out he was sleeping with this other girl. It's entirely up to you. Best of luck honey, enjoy that baby!
2007-03-09 11:46:48 · answer #2 · answered by 'tisJustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but you should get together with evilbunnyhahaha, all she talks about is her pregnancy and her boyfriend that left her. Even though you are much more articulate than she is. Just move on and forget the guys for awhile. Focus on your child and getting a great job to take care of the two of you.
2007-03-10 09:44:03 · answer #3 · answered by get your nose out of the books 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really don`t need that right now. like him playing with your head. my advice is that you make a plan for you & your baby.
dont even worry about him. `cause if he's going to act childish then w/e his loss, because hes going to be missing out on something so great.
you are going to have a baby, you dont need to worry about "two" kids. you know what I mean?
right now you should concentrate on making it through your pregnancy without any unwanted stress.
being pregnant is a stress all on its own.
take care of yourself.
I can understand after being with him so long , its hard to let go, but the longer you take to let go, the harder it will be.
More power to you if you make it without him.
2007-03-09 19:34:03 · answer #4 · answered by babiimamii 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's a worthless excuse for a man and you and your child will be much better off without him. Go see a lawyer right away and get custody and child support ironed out now.
2007-03-09 15:11:52 · answer #5 · answered by LindaLou 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey!! doc's sed me n my ex culdnt hav kids...now i'm also 7 months gone! n my oh so lovely bf changed at the drop of a hat n left me...mind, he's just 2 miles away. i get phone calls from sum1 sayin shes his new gf n he dnt wana kno me or baby, but when i ask him abt it he never says yes or no...aviodin the question kinda mean yes in my eyes.
i'm 20 n he's 22, n im now thinking its bloody easy 4 men 2 get over the love of their lives AND their unborn child. i've had 3 scares thinking im in labour, n how long do he take 2 get to the hospital everytime? abt 3-5 HOURS. caring huh? i've let my ex kno i want him back, theres just no way i can see i'd ever get over him, evn tho he's being so horrbile 2 me n our baby girl. i've tried the whole 'wont see you till shes born' routine...failed miserably cuz i txt him 2 mins later! lol, so weak.
got a feelin men r twats that love messing wiv our heads. to be honest wiv u, if he took a job 2000 miles away, r u sure he was as in love wiv u as u r wiv him? u were 7 months gone!! theres no WAY he'd b bk in time 4 the birth of ur son. personally think thats disgusting, and im sure u were far from happy wiv him. but i kno wot u mean when u wana get bk wiv him after all he's done. i try tellin ppl i dnt wana him bk JUST cuzza the baby but cuz i love him but they dnt believe me.
take now 4 example...he sed he'd phone me @ 7pm....its now...00.58...so 1am (in england) only awake cuz i cnt sleep. he says he's really busy. doing what at 1am?!?!? havin it off wiv his new *****?
i don't kno wot 2 say other than, if u wana moan @ sum1 who knows exaclty what ur going thru, feel free 2 email me k?
evilbunnyhahaha@yahoo.com, me names pene btw (hi!!!!)
2007-03-09 12:00:10 · answer #6 · answered by evilbunnyhahaha 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Any man who leaves you when your pregnant with their child is a piece of sh*t
2007-03-09 12:10:12 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've been asking about this for a month.
Nobody here has an answer for you.
I'm sorry.
2007-03-09 12:13:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋