Today is the second month, that I haven't heard from my "alleged boyfriend." He lives in another state, so I can't just go to his house and say "hi." I've tried to get a hold of him, but he hasn't responded. Everything was fine between us, then he said that he was "SOOOO busy" with school, and stuff at home, then I never heard from him again. Has he left me?
2007-03-09 11:06:19 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It frustrates me, because HE'S the one who basically threw himself at my feet, begged me to take him, and was always telling me how much he loved me. I just don't understand...
2007-03-09 11:12:38 · update #1
Now there's all these other guys I know who like me, and I'm afraid to move on to one of them, if he still loves me and wants to be with me. I just don't know!!!
2007-03-09 11:18:24 · update #2
I'm sorry, dear... I would say he's already gone and just wasn't man enough to tell you it's over. Sorry.
2007-03-09 11:09:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off make sure he is OK health wise and his family's health is good and that's not the reason. However if he is just outright ignoring you then let him know you are moving on, I am sure he has a answering machine or a voice mail. Show him you have a life to, and it's not only him. It seems right now he has his cake and is eating it to, if he knows he always has you to fall back on he will keep going the way that he is. Don't try and rub it in, that's just asking for a fight but get out do something with friends, whatever makes you happy. You never know whats out there.
2007-03-09 19:19:55 · answer #2 · answered by mudmixerccc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so very sorry to say YES, he has, but what a creep to do it in that fashion. Now don't pine away, yes your allowed to feel sorry for yourself but just a little, then get on with your life, he isn't worth what he has put you threw, the wondering. What a thoughtless person, really he did you a favor now you know what you would have been stuck with. A lifetime is a long time, their are so many nice guys out there, find yourself one, and if not, nothing is better than having a thoughtless jerk.....
2007-03-09 19:14:29 · answer #3 · answered by brown eyes 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey if you are young and still in school and you have not heard from him in month. I would try his family and tell them if he don't call you by the end of the week you are going to break-end.Take all his stuff to house say good-by and hello to Mr. Right. Cause you are going out and have a good to with your friends this week-end.
2007-03-09 19:17:08 · answer #4 · answered by momloveashlee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it may be a possibility that he has gotten really busy with school and all and he does not know how to end it with you so he uses this way or it could be that this is the best way for him to tell you he has moved on and this is your time to move on too. I may be wrong but I think that he has left you and now I think it is time for you to move on and spend your time with someone that doesn't mind being busy pleasing you. Good luck with that!
2007-03-09 19:14:47 · answer #5 · answered by mamashortydoowop 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
don't bother even thinking about that looser,he has someone but wants you too, so he won't tell you anything yet just in case the other thing doesn't work out.Saying hi to someone you're with takes a second, call him and dump him.There is no excuse and you deserve someone better!He is not worth your minute.
2007-03-09 19:11:09 · answer #6 · answered by a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems to me that he has, but don't worry there are other guys out there that will give you the respect you need. I think he took the coward way out by ignoring you, than to just tell you.
2007-03-09 19:10:14 · answer #7 · answered by misty blue 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no he hasn't left u but he might be cheating well he dosen't have enough time with u so don't just take my answer think about the other ones if theres alot of answers like this he's cheating on u sorry
2007-03-09 19:11:18 · answer #8 · answered by Bre Bre 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, he's just really busy with life. Give him some time to breathe, and u two would stay just fine.
2007-03-09 19:15:12 · answer #9 · answered by Kari 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
im sorry but yes ...
sometimes some jerks act this way ..when they break up ..they are not civilised enough to come to talk to you and say why they want to break up ..coz they r weak and stupid and especially immature ..
Forget about him ..he's an a** h***
You have nothing to lose ..but he'll lose you ...
2007-03-09 19:15:30 · answer #10 · answered by ^^ANGEL^^ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋