OK YESTERDAY WAS SIX MONTHS OF BEING WITH MY BOYFRIEND....ON WEDNESDAY HE WAS ACTING REALLY WEIRD SO I CALLED HIM AND HE DIDN'T WANNA PICK UP THE PHONE....SO YESTERDAY I FINALLY GOT TO TALK TO HIM AND TOLD HIM WHAT WAS WRONG AND HE STAYED QUIET AND CONFESSED ME THAT HE CHEATED ON ME THAT HE ONLY KISSED A GIRL WHEN WE HAD LIKE A WEEK OF GOING OUT BUT NOW THAT HE TOLD ME I FEEL KINDA WEIRD I DIDN'T BRAKE UP WITH HIM CUZ I TRULY LOVE HIM BUT I'M SO CONFUSE WHAT WOULD YOU DO IF YOU WERE IN MY PLACE.....PLEASSSSE I NEED ADVICE!! HE TOLD ME THAT HE WAS REALLY SORRRY AND THAT HE'LL NEVER DO IT AGAIN BUT WHEN THEY DO IT ONCE THEY KEEP ON DOING IT......HELP A.S.A.P
2007-03-09 10:25:46 · 15 answers · asked by ♥ i L0VE U S0 MUCH ♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well I'm sorry that happened to you. I think you should just forgive him. But don't move too fast, take it slow and tell him he has to earn your trust back. In the meantime, cool off and think about all the good time you had and will continue to have. He'll come around, I know he will. Good luck! ; )
2007-03-09 10:31:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, wait, he kissed her when you guys had only been going out for a week?
That doesn't sound so bad, because after a week, he would have no idea that you guys might become something more than just a casual date. I'd say forgive him. Just tell him it will take you some time to get over the idea (because it does sound like you have some problems with what he did).
2007-03-09 18:29:36 · answer #2 · answered by mikah_smiles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a tough situation. I know you think you love him, but ask yourself this, would the guy that you truly love ever cheat on you? I hope the answer would be no. You guys haven't been in the relationship long enough to where you would be in too deep to get over him. I'm sure that this isn't what you want to hear but if he cheated on you I doubt he loves you as much as he claims to. You deserve the best and no girl ever deserves to be cheated on. Think it over and just remember that you should never settle.
2007-03-09 18:59:00 · answer #3 · answered by devious805er 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Didn't something in his story not make sense to you? I mean, you're dating for 6 months and everything is great then, all of a sudden, out of the blue, six months into it, he becomes "guilt ridden" over something that happened the first week you were dating? Just doesn't make sense to me. Maybe it's a case of "He's just not that into you"
I've been married a very long time and if I were unable to keep my husband's attention in the first 6 months, well, I wouldn't have married him. I wouldn't have been offended, just moved on.
2007-03-09 18:38:22 · answer #4 · answered by N0_white_flag 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would make it clear you are not going to tolerate this behavior...I would tell him you need to have some time to think about it...and that you need to take a couple of weeks off and then you will talk...now 1 of 2 things will happen...either he is really into you ...and really sorry...then he will wait...be panicked that you might leave him and think twice about doing it again...or...he will move on...and if he chooses this route...he would never have been faithful to you anyhow...too shallow....good riddance in that instance...be brave...require a certain standard for yourself...it will either cement the relationship or get rid of a big heartache coming your way. Good luck.
2007-03-09 18:32:31 · answer #5 · answered by ticklemeblue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i was in that situation i would probably talk to him and give him another chance if i truly loved him. True love only comes around once. Dont let it slip by. And if your relationship is strong and he feels the same way you do just bhave hope that he wont do it again.
2007-03-09 18:31:52 · answer #6 · answered by corky555 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said he did it only once the first week you were dating and very sorry (also apparently guilty) ..........so yes forgive him this time.........everyone deserves a second chance especially when they are remorseful........... just let him know you will never tolerate that behavior again but you care about him and will give him a second chance......I hope he doesn't let you down ever again...PS ..he didn't have to tell you and you may have never known..so he really is sorry
2007-03-09 18:32:30 · answer #7 · answered by connie b 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he just was going through some complex times and the worst thing for him would be to break up with him... he must love u too but he didn't get the sparks in the beginning until now and feels that u mean more to him then u. feel lucky to be with him cuz other girls want him. ; )
2007-03-09 18:30:25 · answer #8 · answered by Elie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, if ya'll have been together for like 6 months and he is JUST NOW tellin u he cheated when ya'll was only together for like a week... I mean y wud he wait to tell u now??? Something else is goin on, he's either testn ya'lls relationship, or hes cheatn on u again.
2007-03-09 18:31:03 · answer #9 · answered by dollbabe92 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you two truely care about each other you'll work it out. But if he's like tons of guys out there once a cheat always a cheat.
2007-03-09 18:29:36 · answer #10 · answered by briana11us2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋