Is he just trying to build up his ego? or is he just playing the field?
I read his texts (secretly) and he is repeatedly stepping over the line of just friends. Is it ok to ask someone to practise first aid on you? what about repeatedly asking them to flash you? I think I know the answer to this one, i just need some reassurance.
2007-03-09 10:20:34 · 39 answers · asked by SuffolkMillyMouse 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nope - not ok, sounds like he is keeping his options open.
2007-03-09 10:22:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-17 23:55:30 · answer #2 · answered by fanelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear one it is NOT acceptable for any "boyfriend" to flirt with anything---girls, boys, or whatever!!!! You will be better off to find a different "friend" because apparently he really doesn't care that much about you or he wouldn't feel the need to find attention somewhere else. Of course, when you tell him you don't want to see him anymore, he's going to beg and plead and promise he won't do that anymore etc. etc. Believe me, he'll do it again and again and again. My question to you is.... do you really need a boyfriend right now? If so, why? Are you ready to get married and you're looking for the right guy? If so, do you want to marry this guy? the one who's going to cheat on you day in and day out??? If you're not ready to settle down and get married, you might want to consider enjoying your life and getting to know yourself better before dealing with all the drama of a boyfriend. This kind of guy can sweet talk his way into anything. He will tell you all kinds of lies, and if you absolutely have fallen for him, then you'll believe him. Next thing you know, you're pregnant, he dumps you and your life has been drastically changed.....for what? Wise up, girl!! Lose him NOW!!!!
2007-03-09 10:33:23 · answer #3 · answered by mommichka 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No-not on at all! Yes,it may be an ego boost to him-but odds are he hasn't let on to these other women that he is in a relationship with you. Take the numbers down,call them and kindly inform them. At the same time,find out if this has been merely a text thing-or more. I'm sorry if I've been harsh-but I've been through it-and it's better you know the truth.
2007-03-10 01:56:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not if you don't feel good about it and if you are asking I guess you do not. I have given some boyfriends an ultimatum of a spanking or the door for such disrespectful behaviour. Of course they are male and if they learn well they will still manage to flirt but keep it from you. So long as it goes no further what you don't know can't hurt - so long as they go no further than flirting. Personally I would interrogate any guy periodically and if he admits to flirting (most are as transparent as a naughty child) I would deal with him as I saw fit (see above).
2007-03-09 10:29:55 · answer #5 · answered by Skyblue Princess 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say that if you are not around a little - and i mean very little flirting is ok. No getting their numbers or any of that crap, but there is no need for him to be boring all the time with other girls. If you are there it is just disrespectful.
The text messages are out of line, especially if you don't know these girls. Sleeping over is too much.
I have only one girl "friend" I would sleep over her dorm room if i visited her. She is my best friend though and any girlfriend I have will know that and meet her and understand it is nothing more. In a situation like that I would say it is ok but random girls you don't know, dump him
2007-03-09 10:24:50 · answer #6 · answered by Interested 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It depends on how long u been together? Everyone flirts a bit. It's never a good idea to read someones texts it only makes you worry about nothing most of the time x
2007-03-09 10:30:31 · answer #7 · answered by gem 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh sweetie - run - don't walk away from him now. He is a player and is definetly on the "move"...he's waiting for someone to take him up on his "first aide" or "flashing". He's not a keeper. He sound only be looking at you and taking care of you....this is the reassurance - DROP HIM!
2007-03-09 10:25:38 · answer #8 · answered by suzycrmchz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is not the way to behave when your in a relationship and he need's a good kick up the a-r-s-e.
You must be having doubts about him anyway other wise you wouldn't have read his txts messages in the first place!
Confront him and let him know he's taking the pi$$ and he carries on, kick him to the gutter and find somebody you can trust!
2007-03-09 10:28:04 · answer #9 · answered by The Original Highbury Gal 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is stepping over the mark by flirting, let alone collecting numbers and texting these people, ask yourself this?
If you were to do the same to him how would he react?
If you confront him, will he will try to deny (lying to u)
If you ignore it it'l carry on
If it carries on it'l get worse
Do u want to be checking his mobile - that already says he cant be trusted, and has proved to be untrustworthy
you are worth more respect than he is giving you...
2007-03-09 10:37:19 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol, not only is he being a lame boyfriend, HE HAS NO GAME WHATSOEVER!! Asking someone to practice first aid on you? God I hope you guys are 12... You need to lose the douchebag like yesterday.
2007-03-09 10:25:08 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋