There just don't don't seem to be any real gentlemen left in the world. I'm 24 and at my age guys are just boys who are either wanna be gansters, or have no idea where they're going w/their lives...where are all the real men?
2007-03-09 10:14:13 · 20 answers · asked by dvlbeneathwings 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm very kind. At least I think so. You are looking in the wrong places. I know lots of nice guys. All of my friends are nice (ages 22-28). The trick though... we don't go out to bars or anything of the sort. And, most likely we aren't going to go ask you for your number or anything like that either. Especially if it's at the store or some other public place and we've never met. You'll just have to look harder and look somewhere else.
My guess is that most of the guys who are going to go out of their way to approach you when they first see you somewhere are nothing like me or my friends. They'll use ya and abuse ya. Then when you are used up they'll find another girl. Rinse repeat.
2007-03-09 10:22:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry that you feel that way because there are some kind real gentlemen in the world. The fact that you haven't found one is probably representative of that age group. Most of the boys your age still do not know what they are looking for and the gangsters, well, got already what they were looking for. The real men are behind the scenes and are more gentlemanly that you could possibly believe. We are only low key as there are those that take advantage of this emotion and trait. You might try changing your area of influence or friend group. Try attending different events that sponser participants that those traits are indicative of. Keep looking as we are out here. I was beginning to wonder if those traits were even wanted any longer as I had two wives that threw away a whole threshold of good things including being a good man for the temptation of divorce court and the quick buck. I hope you find your gentleman, I am sure he will consider himself lucky.
2007-03-09 10:28:49 · answer #2 · answered by andyman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, there are good guys left. Im 18 and Im a good guy. The reason it doesnt seem like it bcuz of the maturity level in guys, and plus most guys just want to lives their lives the way they see fit.
2007-03-09 10:19:35 · answer #3 · answered by caring black guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thought the same thing till I meet my fiance. I'm 22 he's 23 and has a great job and knows what he wants. He's mature unlike the other guys that I have dated our age.
2007-03-09 10:17:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
the same question is just crossing my mind everyday .. :) :)
listen you should be hopeful ..and know on what kind of guy you should put expectations ..they are not all the same ..there are still good men ..but you should look at the right place ..some place where you'll have something in common with him ..
i hope there are still at least two good men ..one for you ..and one for me .. :)
2007-03-09 10:23:19 · answer #5 · answered by ^^ANGEL^^ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are out there. Perhaps you are the problem?
PS - Gentlemen = chivalry = died when feminists went overboard and made all guys look bad. Good work
2007-03-09 10:18:44 · answer #6 · answered by Interested 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are probably trying to meet guys in bars or clubs. Try somewhere where guys are not just in life to party. They are all over the place you just don't want to look in the right places
2007-03-09 10:19:40 · answer #7 · answered by zambeff 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, i know plenty of guys like that. they're everywhere. do you still attend college? that would be one of the best places to find someone like that. if you do, then start going to more college sponsored events.
2007-03-09 10:21:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but you may be looking in the wrong places.
2007-03-09 10:19:09 · answer #9 · answered by Aron H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes there are. You must venture out of your usual social circle to find them.
2007-03-09 10:18:25 · answer #10 · answered by cocoa prinzess 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋