MY ex-boyfriend beat up my new boyfriend,I told him to stop, and leave us alone,but he said if he can't have me no one could what do i do?
2007-03-09 10:14:02 · 54 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Two words.... Restraining order. Make the law keep him away from you.
2007-03-09 10:16:12 · answer #1 · answered by zambeff 2 · 8⤊ 0⤋
Its called order of protection and you can get one from the courthouse for free. If there was a police report it will be even easier. Then anytime you are out or at home or with your new bf and your old bf shows up you call the police and he goes to jail. He will realize that you are not worth going to jail over repeatedly and will eventually find someone else to latch onto like the pathetic loser he is.
2007-03-09 10:18:11 · answer #2 · answered by itzmedbd 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Realize that your ex-boyfriend is a hater and emotional. If you find that type of loser attractive, then go back to him. Also, if you don't feel safe with your new boyfriend, that can be a problem too. See how your new boyfriend reacts to getting beat up and you'll know what to do.
2007-03-09 10:19:13 · answer #3 · answered by South Beach 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should tell your new boyfriend to report to the police and tell them that your ex-boyfriend 'assaulted him.' That may seem 'wrong' or 'counter-intuitive' but it's the 'best thing you can do' ... hopefully they'll arrest your ex and he'll be convicted and get some 'jail time' but at the very 'least' the police will 'know' about it, because something 'much worse' may happen, including you being kidnapped by your ex, or killed, or your new boyfriend being killed.
2007-03-09 10:18:41 · answer #4 · answered by Kris L 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This surely means that your ex-boyfriend is a satirist. He has a mind set that if doesn't gets a thing then no one should get it. You could have mentioned why did you leave your ex-boyfriend. If it's a valid reason then ask your new boyfriend to bring his gang and thrash that guy such that he never interferes in your life. Otherwise speak to him softly and try to convince him.
2007-03-09 10:22:40 · answer #5 · answered by Seenu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u may need to press charges on your ex, show him there are consequences for bad deeds. your ex is jealous, and wants u back, and thinks the reason he can't have u is because of the new boyfriend. the best thing to do is to get a protective order, and file some charges on him, or he will keep doing it.
2007-03-09 10:18:13 · answer #6 · answered by jude 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is definitely cause for a restraining order!! Call the police and tell the what has happened....This guys sounds nuts and it doesn't sound like he's going to stop. Take action before he does something WORSE!!!
2007-03-09 10:17:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your new boyfriend needs to learn MARTIAL ARTS to defend himself and you could get a restraining order against the old bf if he does not leave you alone.Do not shoot someone like another person here said, that's crazy, crazy enough to get you into prison.
2007-03-09 10:17:42 · answer #8 · answered by sirmrmagic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the police and have your ex arrested for assault and battery. Get a restraining order to keep him away from you. With the order, if he even shows up just call 911 and they take him to jail.
2007-03-09 10:16:39 · answer #9 · answered by Mnementh 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i've read this in newspaper before.. ex bf killed the exgirl and new boyfriend... oOooohhh... you should tell someone... did i scare you? if your ex's behavior get worse than what's happening now.. you should be careful... some guys stop after they beat-up the competition... it's a male thing.. but if your ex is messed up in the head... watch out!!!
2007-03-09 10:18:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well u should let the police know what happen.Because next time it might be u.These type of men won't stop until they get back what they feel they own.If he feels he can't have u then he might make sure no one can. Good luck
2007-03-09 10:24:01 · answer #11 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋