have you ever asked yourself if you have made the right choice? and i mean that forever kind of thing. ok i got married and i do love him with all my heart, but i cant stop thinking of someone else and i really dont wanna be with the other person ,he did me wrong. but i cant get him out of my head . Is this normal? please help!!!!!!
2007-03-09 10:09:55 · 8 answers · asked by angeleyes 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes this is normal. you did not give yourself enough time to get over this guy before you got married. It will take some time for you to get over this heart break but by you marring your new love this will help! Good Luck!
2007-03-09 10:15:06 · answer #1 · answered by curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This kind of thinking is normal. I actually went through this not to long ago. I got married and started thinking about my ex and other guys. But one day I just realized what the hell am i doin thinking these things! It was more of an epiphany actually that I stopped thinking like that. Find out the whole reason why your thinkin about that other guy. Are you tired of him? Just the flame need to be relit? Or do you just like assholes? Find the question and the answer is not far behind.
2007-03-09 10:18:03 · answer #2 · answered by briana11us2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't mean this in a bad way, but you probably need marriage counseling. At the least, I'd talk to a priest, as they can help you if you are religious. If you're not, then a counselor will be able to.
Concentrate on your marriage. If this other person did you wrong, and you don't even want to be with him, than is it worth potentially sabotaging your marriage questioning if you're with the right man?
2007-03-09 10:15:21 · answer #3 · answered by Mnementh 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
umm if u dont want any problems in ur marriage u should stop thinkin about that other person. i mean u can always wonder "what if" but i woudnt do anything about it if that other person screwed u over. cuz hell do it agen. also i think ur husband deserves to know that u're a little confused.
Honesty and trust is the key to a healthy relationship.
2007-03-09 10:16:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems you did not get closure and that you still like this person. I once got hurt very bad and I thought about her all the time. But with time you will forget this person little by little.
2007-03-09 10:13:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You better make up your mind because if you don't you won't have either. Remember who made those vows with you and if you no longer want to keep those vows say good by to the one that was there for you and that loves you unconditionally
2007-03-09 10:15:18 · answer #6 · answered by ffperki 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow, you got some issues that u need to talk to with your spouse, not us. you've got some skeletons in your closet or somethin. maybe u married too young?
2007-03-09 10:13:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is normal I still think of my ex who screwed me over royally. but I love my honey with all my heart.
2007-03-09 10:13:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋