Does playing hard to get REALLY work?

Question

I really like this guy, and I think he might like me too, but should I be talkative and really nice, or play hard to get and let him come talk to me.

Answer 1

I suppose it's different for everyone. You can't honestly know exactly how this boy is going to react to either of these two options, but chances are you'll make contact better if you just go up to him and be friendly :)

The majority of guys I've talked to insist they'd rather hang out with a girl who makes them feel comfortable and that doesn't make them feel like they have to go way out of their way to get your attention.

After the initial companionship, however, it's all up to you. From what you've witnessed, does he seem to enjoy a good chase? Would he rather just, not? Could he really just be a good friend afterall?

So yeah, in my personal opinion, I'd go and be friendly to him. Don't dominate the conversation, but be sure it keeps flowing. If he really doesn't seem interested (idiot boy lol) than well, that's that. Perhaps he'd be a better friend :D

If you have to make the initial contact, don't be afraid to do so! Sometimes a girls gotta do what a girls gotta do!

The best of luck to you!
Anna

Answer 2

Talk to him, be friendly and kind. Be like his best friend. Playing hard to get does work, i will admit, but then the guys flock in for the wrong reason. So yea.

Answer 3

You should be open with him in a nice way. Girls who think they are playing hard to get usually come off as too shy or bitchy.

Answer 4

playing hard to get always works for me although I don't mean to play it, I was just born that way. Follow your heart and your instincts sweety.

Answer 5

You should talk to him and not act like an unreachable object of his desires.
That's so lame.

Be his friend first, not his eyecandy.
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