She backstabbed me by getting me kicked out of residence: contrarary to what you may or may not believe, the reasons were not justified. Yet, I am left stranded, all backs turned... I am angry, but I am contemplating whether or not to inflict revenge, or just to let things slide....
Any suggestions?
2007-03-09 10:04:35 · 10 answers · asked by Genesis 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it sounds like you may still be bitter from her stabbing you in the back, I would advise not to say anything right away, just simply because it will come out as anger and she will not respond to that, thats actually the response that shes hoping for. I would wait until you are back on your feet and can prove that no matter how terrible of a person she is, you can make it in this world without her. That will bother her more knowing that you were successful when all backs were turned. Most people can't handle that situation and her knowing that you can is the one thing that will bother her more!!
2007-03-09 10:10:35 · answer #1 · answered by Chelsearay85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let things slide. Revenge may seem tempting when you're hurt and angry but in the end it will not make you a better person and later you'll feel even worse.
On the other hand if you just dont take revenge, you'll feel much better once your anger fades away.
2007-03-09 10:09:40 · answer #2 · answered by Karl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let it just go, like oh well! Even God said " Do onto others as they would do onto you! If your name was on the lease, fight back to Landlord, if not be creative, you lived with her and you know her down falls. THAT WAS JUST PLAIN
NASTY! Do whatever you have to so or she'll keep walking on people. Even small claims court but she'd lie herself out of that one to.
We don't call it revenge, but if it were a favour, u'd return it right? Just show her you don't put up with her crap, it's YOUR
apt!!!!!!!!!!!!
Summer
2007-03-09 10:29:19 · answer #3 · answered by Diana D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let it go and dont stoop to her level. if you were genuinely kicked out for reasons that arent justified, then talk to the people in charge and explain what happened.
2007-03-09 10:07:20 · answer #4 · answered by kari 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two wrongs never make a right. Just remember that what goes around, comes around.
2007-03-09 10:07:54 · answer #5 · answered by Seasidelover23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go, I am a great believer of karma.
You'll feel a lot better by not avenging this.
2007-03-09 10:08:06 · answer #6 · answered by Azucena V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't hurt her but maybe you can be a little sneaky and screw her over but don't let her know it was you! If she finds out it was you all hell will break lose!
2007-03-09 10:09:57 · answer #7 · answered by Mallory 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should push her off the bridge. Have a great day!
2007-03-09 10:07:27 · answer #8 · answered by lilcal723 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Revenge is childish and pointless.
2007-03-09 10:07:16 · answer #9 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move in with friends
2007-03-09 10:07:51 · answer #10 · answered by Ting 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋