My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 yrs now and I really want to try something new but I don't know what He is going to say...I just don't want him to think that Im a pervert or anything. He sees me as a quiet girl who sometimes is shy and reserved. I want him to tie me to the bed or to anything...and make me his slave....I'd just love to feel his strength his power over me....I want him to make me his in any way he wants. Will he just freak out? He is also kind of reserved. This is a serious question please help!
2007-03-09 09:37:15 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
H will probably enjoy it, take your time and work you way up to it. Buy some soft fabric or something that he can use to tie you up, show it to him when and when he asks what it is for, tell him its so he can tie you up. It is really healthy for a relationship to share each others fantasies, even if you dont act them out. Trying is much better then spending your whole life wondering what if...
2007-03-09 09:46:00 · answer #1 · answered by Kevin J 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hmmm....what about renting a movie that has that sort of a scene in it and then watching it together? Get him slightly hot and bothered by the time that scene is on and then cuddle up to him and say, "hey, that looks like fun... let's try it' when it does.
At least you can guage his reaction and if he is already in the mood, he may be more receptive. You never know, you could have a wild man on your hands who thinks YOUR the reserved one! :)
2007-03-09 09:44:28 · answer #2 · answered by Clarissa 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think the best way to bring this up is to first ask him what does he think about this kind of thing,if he says something like I would never do it or this stuff is for perverts than don't ask him to do it with you,but if he says that he would try that than bring it up!!!GOOD LUCK
2007-03-09 09:43:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
F ind an erotic novel or short story that features what you have in mind and read it to him.
But in my opinion, people who can't talk openly about sex and their sexual desires shouldn't be doing it. If you're too chicken to talk, or feel he'll "freak out" then maybe you need to review what these last 5 years have been about.
2007-03-09 09:45:18 · answer #4 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some guys like that. Just ask
2007-03-09 09:42:53 · answer #5 · answered by Ivan S 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him about your fantasy! Tell him it was a dream and you would like to see what is is like! I am certain he will understand and be willing to "turn you on".
2007-03-09 09:46:33 · answer #6 · answered by Contented 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If thats what you want ask him....
2007-03-09 17:59:31 · answer #7 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he should like it
2007-03-09 09:44:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋