ok, me and my bf have been together for 1month and 1 week. i love him or just REALLY REALLY like him. we havent kissed. i'm sad. lately hes been getting closer to me, hugging me more, putting his arm around me, even pressing his face onto mine,but only the side. once in a while he'll just lay his head on mine. anyways, i'm his first gf so i cut him a little slack as to why he wants to go slow, but i want my kiss. i dont know if what hes been doing lately are signs or if i should talk to him about it, my frineds have asked him and he ignores it.or if i should just kiss him. but were never alone.
so is he giving me signs? what should i do about this altogether? how do i get him alone? should i talk to him about this?
i'm so confused...
2007-03-09 09:35:57 · 25 answers · asked by R ♥ I ♥ P ♥ Casey Calvert 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
were both 14
2007-03-09 09:39:17 · update #1
i get WAY nervouse when if i was to try something like just kissing him.
2007-03-09 09:40:27 · update #2
ok so most of you recommend just kissing him. ok. well i have one more thing standing in my way. his dang hood. (jacket hood)
2007-03-09 09:49:08 · update #3
i dont plan on getting past 2nd base for a while you guys so dont tell me i'm immature to want my kiss ok.
2007-03-09 09:53:42 · update #4
maybe he doesn't want to rush you. i know some guys who are like that... when you're together, and he puts his face against yours, give him a light kiss on the cheek to let him know it's okay to go forward and kiss you. YES he's giving you signs, he just doesn't want to scare you off. go to a movie or something if you want to get him alone....
umm.. don't talk to him about it... you can, but it might just make things awkard... think about the situation if a guy asked you "so.. why haven't you kissed me yet"
OR when you are alone, just look at him, and say kind of quietly (but loud enough for him to hear you) "kiss me" that can be romantic.
when my fiance and i started dating... i totally had to kiss him first.. some guys are just weird
Good luck!
2007-03-09 09:41:20 · answer #1 · answered by Barbara H 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey sister. that's what you are becoming, the longer this lingers, the closer you are to the friend zone. just think about it, you said yourself, he has never had a g/f. he doesn't know what to do. if you do make the first move, it rarely works on guys like him, you can scare a guy off showing your "I am woman " side. I'm a guy, I know these things. if he knew how to kiss you he would have by now, but I have noticed in life, when it's someone you truly connect with, there will be no awkwardness. it will just happen. so don't beat yourself up a bunch. problem is , he is at one level emotionally and you are at another, he can't rise to your level, he don't know how and you expect him to. after he conquers you, he will be a changed man, so slow down some. let it happen.
2007-03-09 09:44:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time he comes to kiss you on the cheek turn your head really fast and give him a good kiss on the lips he is shy and since you are his first he is scared of knowing what to do. If you have a little experience make the move yourself you don't always have to wait for the guy to move in for the kiss.
Remember though this will be his first kiss so make it special and make it half decent.
2007-03-09 09:49:37 · answer #3 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TALK TO HIM ABOUT IT! it has been long enough you guys just need to have some alone time and get to kissing, trust me i was wayyyy nervous too.... for about 2 seconds and then i thought oh wow, this is cool and i have been different ever since! :] just try to find some alone time and you will be kissing in no time. just dont do it if u dont want to. and yeah those are signs from a guy that he wants to be closer with you JUST BE RESPONSIBLE!!! :]
2007-03-09 09:47:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
14's a little too young for anything major - give it some more time - when you're (BOTH) ready, it'll happen. Just be patient.
I don't recommend talking to him about. You'll either scare him off or he'll feel like he "has" to kiss you and you don't want it to be forced, you want it to be natural so it's more special.
2007-03-09 09:45:01 · answer #5 · answered by reandsmom77 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well when you walking with him and you find a nice private place even for a second just grab him and plant a big one on him. Maybe after then he will realize he shoudl have kissed you a long time ago.
2007-03-09 09:41:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just kiss him yourself or if you not that kind of gurl you tell him personally that you want a kiss some guys don't like their gf friends all in their relationship so u should handle it by yourself
2007-03-09 09:42:53 · answer #7 · answered by Jensine W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should go 2 da park u can get him alone their an just make da first move and see were it lead if he kiss u then u no he like u
2007-03-09 09:51:07 · answer #8 · answered by lilmissyin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is shy. Find a way to be alone with him if you want him to kiss you first. Otherwise, just go and kiss him. Done.
2007-03-09 09:38:49 · answer #9 · answered by Plasmapuppy 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
He is super shy......probably will be his first kiss. The next time you are snuggling, lean over and kiss him. Just go slow since the guys tend to slobber all over the place the first time....
2007-03-09 09:40:19 · answer #10 · answered by Clarissa 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋