I mean people say making out is supposed to be fun. But I don't really like it when I make out with my boyfriend. I always feel like I'm sucking on some sort of soft candies. But I never feel any emotions or anything else Why is that Can anyone explain it to me
2007-03-09 09:30:44 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yeah, well it sounds like you already explained it to us, there is no emotions. You may like your bf but that is about all. make a list of reasons why you go out with your boyfriend. How did you and he start and what feelings did you have then? How long have you been dating him and have you dated others before, maybe one that you had different feelings for? If it is too much to keep in your head at one time, keep a journal. A lot of the answers that you ask can be found by askin you, or reading your journal. It is a very inexpensive and accurate way for you to self critique yourself and find what the problem is. Since I have been journaling, I have been my own savior as many times as I have had to face the music for things wrong but in the end result, we know ourselves and can be our own best friend sometimes we just need a medium to communicate with ourselves to find answers.
2007-03-09 09:39:49 · answer #1 · answered by andyman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy. Move on to a new bf. Obviously he does nothing for you. The more you delay the more the break up is going to cause a problem. Say bye bye.
2007-03-09 09:36:54 · answer #2 · answered by Geoff A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you don't feel emotion... then there is none! i guess you don't like him.... when i make out with my boyfriend i get such a variety of swooping emotions. my heart starts to race, my knees weaken, and it always feels great. it always feels like someone lit up a fire in my heart, and it warms my whole body in a great way that i can't really describe... honestly, if you don't feel anything then you just don't like him.
2007-03-09 09:40:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Either because you aren't really 'into' him or maybe you are making out with the wrong sex. Has there been other guys who you have enjoyed kissing or never?
2007-03-09 09:36:15 · answer #4 · answered by Clarissa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have no chemistry with him it could be your dating him for his looks but its just got no hotness he doesn't know how to kiss, to shy to go elsewhere like using his hands, mostly it is that you have lost or never had those intimate sexual feelings for this guy.
It's your body telling you he ain't the one for you.
2007-03-09 09:37:31 · answer #5 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should focus more on what u doing, clear ur mind of all things and focus on ur feelings, emotions, the heat, and most importantly focus on ur love for him if u really love him.
2007-03-09 09:53:05 · answer #6 · answered by ivelisse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's doing it wrong. Come see me.
2007-03-09 09:59:14 · answer #7 · answered by Raul D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe u just aren't into him nemore
2007-03-09 09:34:43 · answer #8 · answered by bebedol27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you don't have any feeling for your bf...sorry "bf" I meant
2007-03-09 09:33:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe because u have no feelings for him?
2007-03-09 09:33:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋