making out help? URGENT!!?

Question

i've been seeing this guy for a little while and tonight we're hanging out alone at his house. I think he might try and kiss me but i've never made out with anyone before so im a little nervous and i really have no idea what to do and i dont want to make a fool of myself. When I ask my friends they tell me to go with the flow, however, i dont know what the flow is. Can someone give me a direct answer

Answer 1

I have the perfect technique. It is easy and people will think you are great.

Like you, before I had any experience, I was intimidated and afraid of being embarrassed and then I thought of this idea and every time I have done it, the person has said, right after we made out, that I am a great kisser.

Ready? Are you sitting?

When you first kiss, make sure your mouth is open and just worry about kissing their lips (don't use tongue right away). Once you get going, the person you are kissing will start doing whatever they do - and here is the key, they will do to you what they like, because they will assume you will like it to. So what you do, is simply copy what they are doing.

It sounds too easy and it is, but like I said before, everytime I have done that, I have had compliments.

Answer 2

"Go with the flow" means do whatever feels right at the moment. No one can really tell you exactly what to do each moment, because what's right in one situation can be horrible and awkward in another.
If he tries to kiss you, and you want him to, then let him. Just tilt your head a little to the side, relax, and pucker your lips a tiny bit. It's kinda like riding a bike - people can tell you how to do it, but it doesn't make sense until you actually do it yourself and get the feel for it.
If he tries to do more, decide right now what you're comfortable with and what you're definitely not okay with. You don't have to do anything you don't want to, or just because he wants to. If you've never kissed before, I'd suggest not going any further than kissing, holding hands, or hugging - if you're not sure what is "further" than that, you're definitely not ready to do any of it!
Just relax, it'll work out. Everyone gets nervous, and yet everyone remembers their first kiss fondly.

Answer 3

If you catch him leaning in for a kiss meet him part way, once your lips are touching everything will make sense about the 'go with the flow' bit.
Kiss him back - of course - don't be a wall.
and if he slips you the tongue well just do exactly what he's doing to you back to him (little licks I'm figuring).
Relax. If you get all nervous that's when things like head butting happen.
Good Luck!

Answer 4

Ok im going to tell u all u need to know cuz i went through the same thing and its all going to work out for the best...

*** How to tell if
he wants to kiss you!

After you've kissed him once, you know he wants
to kiss you. But what if you two have never
kissed? The first kiss is the hardest.

You could ask him to kiss you, but that takes
a lot of courage. But you can tell, without reading
his mind. Here are some ways. He could have
worked on the science project with someone else, but
he asked you. He could have called somebody else to
chat about the English assignment, but he called you.
He could have sat anywhere in the cafeteria, but
he sat next to you. It all means he likes to hang out
with you.

And what about when you're with him. Does he
sit close to you? Does he smile and look happy when
you're together? These are all signs that he likes
you and might want to kiss you.

****How to get him to kiss you

Sometimes people who are nervous send out
mixed signals. You might want him to kiss you, but
your nervous behavior might be saying "stay away."

First of all your posture should be open. Sit or
stand close to him. Face him. Look at him, not at the
ground. Don't cross your arms or lean away; or,
instead of "kiss me" you'll be saying "kiss off!"

Look into his eyes. Smile. Get close to him. If you're
not holding hands yet, do it. Ask him to help you
remove an earring, or undo the clasp of that gold chain
you're wearing. To do that he's got to put both hands
on your neck.


Now turn your head, and look in his eyes, and be quiet.
Smile. If he says anything, just interrupt and whisper
his name softly. He'll kiss you for sure!

~~****How to kiss

When your lips meet, keep them slightly parted and
press gently against his lips. Tilt your head
slightly to one side, so your noses won't get
in the way.

What do you do next? It depends. If it's just a
little kiss, a peck on the lips, move away but
(this is very important) don't move away all of
a sudden, as if you were disgusted by his kiss!
Just move away slowly, maybe while still holding hands,
and looking in his eyes.

On the other hand, if you're French kissing, read on ...

!!!!****French kissing
(or Frenching)

French kisses are kisses in which you also use your
tongues. (That's why you part your lips slightly.)
So, after you've started kissing, the next step
is that either he will slip his tongue into your
mouth or you'll slip yours into his. Don't let your
tongue go limp but move it around his, or playfully
push his tongue out with yours, then let him
push your tongue back into your mouth, and so on.

Repeat this until you get tired of it (which you never will!)
or until your annoying little brother starts taping you
with the camcorder and threatening to tell your parents.

**Kissing with glasses or braces

If either of you wears glasses, just take them off
before kissing.

If either has braces, the important thing not
to press too hard agains this lips. Otherwise the
braces will dig themselves into the inside of
his mouth. Ouch!

If you both have braces, don't worry! During
normal kissing your braces won't touch, so they
can't get tangled up with each other!

******Kissing do's and dont's

A sure way to ruin a perfect kiss is with bad
breath. Carry around some mints or gum, and
have one a few moments before you kiss. Offer
him one too. Avoid spicy foods, garlic and
onions just before. Or at least make sure
you're both eating spicy food, so neither will
notice.
Non-smokers hate kissing a smoker! It's
as gross as kissing an ashtray!
You might be nervous, but don't giggle during or
after you kiss. The other person won't understand
it's nervous laughter. He'll think that you were
laughing at him!

If u ever need anything else email @: [e-mail]

*Much LOve* **God Bless**

Answer 5

well if u both are in the mood, he will get closer to u and starts touching u like ur legs, hands, face u will definitely see the signals. so once he gets close enough and reach for ur lips all u have to do is to suck his top lip while he is doing the same to ur lower lip. then u change position he takes the top and u go for the lower. once u guys feel the tension he is going for ur tongue just open up very slow and let him go for ur tongue and he will do his stuff and u will be fine from then. then u do the same over and over again until u get the hang of it. it's easy this is what they call the flow.

Answer 6

hello, dont be worried, it will be fine i was the same my first time but as soon as it happens you will know what to do trust me. there is no right or wrong way of how to kiss someone.

Answer 7

ok sorry to tell you this but your friends are right cuz i didn't knwo anything 1st time either but i let him know that and he thought it was cool to teach me. just start with a kiss and if you want to touch his cheek softly that's good way to start.

Answer 8

i think you should just trust what your friends told you. you just need to go with it and follow your instincts. if he kisses you first just kiss him back you know

Answer 9

follow ur mind not ur heart...u r thinking right...dont lose urself for nothing..i realy respect ur head

Answer 10

If he makes a move on you, bite his nose and scream loudly. That will set a romantic mood. :-))