There best friends and one is in all of my classes and the other one is in one of my classes. the 1st guy thats in all of my classes is kinda the shy guy and he only tlks to me like once or three times. The second guy tlks to me in the class alot. But he has a girlfriend and i think he flirts with me but i dont know and i really like the 2nd guy more. But i dont want to break them up.
HELP ME Plz
2007-03-09 09:07:50 · 19 answers · asked by Love<3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
do you know if they like you? maybe you should check that out lol you might be worrying about something that might not even happen. and do you really want a guy that has a gf and still flirts with other girls cause you know he could very well do that to you too.
2007-03-09 09:12:53 · answer #1 · answered by munsee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...my advice is to get to know them both better...and if the 2nd one has a gf...well dont interfere because that will only cause more problems...and by the way...u will find sumtimes...that shy guys are soooo sweet...and well other guys like the 2nd one are just big flirts....and a lot of times ...guys only seem shy...but really its the shy guys that will win ur heart over and stay together with u in the long run...so give him a chance...as for the other guy...he sounds like a big flirt...look what hes doin to his current gf....well if hes flirtin with other girls while goin out with her...what do u think hes gonna do if he goes out with u...EXACTLY!...so idk..i would prolly go for the shy guy...but yea...i have no idea who u are or who these two guys are...so just follow ur heart....because im not the one in ur shoes...i just tried to help u out!..good luck...and talk to the shy guy...*wink*
2007-03-09 17:21:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should get to know the first guy a little more, maybe he's afraid to open up to you, because he doesn't know how you feel about him. What ever you do, do not get involved with the 2nd guy if he has a girlfriend. If you do this, then you would seem like the sideline HO, and trust me u don't want to play that position.
2007-03-09 17:14:10 · answer #3 · answered by lilcal723 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
cheating isnt good we all kno that. id go with the 1st guy. get 2 kno him more and try 2 talk to him more since u have more of a chance to. the other guy could be one of those that like if u got with him, he'd break up with u in a short amount of time. i like shy guys but if i like a hyper one or w/e, id make sure he didnt have a gf or thatd be kinda mean. so i hope this helps and good luck!!
2007-03-09 17:14:09 · answer #4 · answered by dangg x jessss (: 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't hear these fools who tell you to do what your heart tells you to do. That's crap! I say go for the first guy b/c he seems faithful. This second guy as a girlfriend and flirts with you? Well I'm sure if you date him he probably do the same dating you. Plus what comes around goes around.
2007-03-09 17:17:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you wont be able to work it out with either of them because you like BOTH of them. Guys hate knowing that the girl they are with or interested in was or is interested in their friend. You can follow your heart, but be careful. Usually guys who have girlfriends will flirt or get with you, but trust me... They ALWAYS go back to their girlfriends...
2007-03-09 17:15:08 · answer #6 · answered by Cieeeee <3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should first make sure they like you, for the guy with the girlsfriend he might just be flirting, but that doesnt really mean he wants to be withyou. Try it with the shy guy maybe he is the one
2007-03-09 17:17:36 · answer #7 · answered by shygirl22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ever heard the saying, "If he'll do it with you, he'll do it TO you."?
even if he does like you, why bother with a guy who you already know will flirt with others? give the shy guy a chance. try to bring him out of his shell. maybe he's just not sure if he has a chance...seeing you flirting with the other guy may send him the message that you really don't find him interesting...good luck! ;)
2007-03-09 17:16:56 · answer #8 · answered by Misty 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should talk more to the first guy and tell the second guy's girlfriend that her boyfriend is nice he he loves to talk to you a lot. I think she will fix your problem in a hurry.
2007-03-09 17:13:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what ur heart tells you to do. but-the guy's a jerk if he flirts with you while he has a girlfriend. think about it: if he flirts with you when he has a girlfriend, won't he flirt with other girls when you're his girlfriend? go with someone who is more honest to his girlfriend and to you. don't go for the shy one either-he's probably hiding something..
2007-03-09 17:17:56 · answer #10 · answered by ♥*_*♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋