There is this guy I like, and I see him every weekend at this hang out that me and my friends go to, and I always watch him play baskettball. Well this weekend he was walking around the building and I looked at him, like right in his eyes, then I turned away, because i was sitting at a table with my friends, but like I said he was walking, ANYWAY i turned away then when I looked back at him he was lookung at me!I got so excited on the inside I almost busted.But really the main reason Y I posted this was because from the fiist time i saw him, when i went home that night I dreamt about him, and I keep on dreaming about him! night after night and the dreams are like we are there at the hangout talking, and laughing, like we are going out or like we are good friends, and the only thing I know about him is his name. I am so confused.
* I am kinda scared to go and talk to him*
2007-03-09 08:53:31 · 6 answers · asked by tonimichelle1221 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honey, just go up to him and start talking. See what his interests are. Maybe you two will hit it off. Sometimes dreams can be your guide, telling you how something's going to be, kinda like deja vu, but sometimes you dream something before it happens, and your dreams are telling you what you need to do, so go talk to him to get the ball rolling.
2007-03-09 10:16:11 · answer #1 · answered by √ẫηΣşşẫ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh sweety, why be scared talking to someone you fancy? Look, when next time you see him, make sure that he notices you. Then, try to start a conversation with him, like: 'Hey..., hi, do you come here often?'. 'Pretty cool, huh?'. Something like that, you know what I mean... Just be yourself, don't panic, and don't over-react to things he says, for example:'Oh! Really? I didn't know!'.
Guys like girls who are kind and sweet. It doesn't matter if it's you who make the first step. The most important thing here is that you get to know him better.
For your dreams, I think you just wanna talk to him but can't, that's why you keep dreaming of you both hanging out together and having a nice time. If you go and talk to him, your mind will be at peace...
2007-03-17 15:54:32 · answer #2 · answered by Lady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go talk to him, that is the only way to settle it. You may not like him after you get to know him, but then again you might. You don't have to plan out a whole conversation just introduce yourself. You can always compliment a shot or block he made or ask him if he can show you how to shoot a lay-up--whatever your style is. Just get the ball rolling and see if he really is as cool as you are hoping.
2007-03-09 18:31:15 · answer #3 · answered by Allison S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not ask about, see where he hangs out, what he likes, then just be about where he is ( not stalking though). or if not write a letter or send a card. that way you havent got to face him, if you trust him not show everyone. good luck
2007-03-17 15:00:48 · answer #4 · answered by RACHEL B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dreams are special and could mean something. Go up to him and strick up conversation and just be yourself
2007-03-17 14:01:11 · answer #5 · answered by midnight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to your crush! He likes you. If you really want to be sure that he does, take my love test:
www.dr-rjp.com/lovetest.html
It will tell you how much he likes you and also let you know what you should do to attract his attention. Do most of the things mentioned in it and he is sure to come over and want to get to know you.
2007-03-09 20:09:23 · answer #6 · answered by DrRJP 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋