my boyfriend still has feelings about his ex when I called him out on it he got alll mad and told his friend his friend said he thought it was time he loses me. He alotold some lady he works with who said that I was playing mind games. he just told me all this on the way home, it sounds like he's the one playing mind games right? Anyways do you have any advise?
2007-03-09 08:39:54 · 5 answers · asked by kelly j 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What everyone else is saying makes no difference-what you and he say together is the key issue. If he is blowing up when you are asking for truth, and then he's involving lots of other people talking- honey, that's not a relationship, it's a drama!
Why is he telling you what other people say but not telling you how he feels? Largely, to throw you off and keep you less forcused on his actions.
Do you want a boyfriend or a reality television episode?
Ditch the bum.
2007-03-09 08:47:13 · answer #1 · answered by CYP450 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know the feeling!!!! Good on you for saying something to him. Yes it does sound like he is playing mind with you. Im guessing by reading this that it only receantly happened. Give him time to think and calm down then you might have better luck. You must talk to him about this. Try not to be nasty but just let him know how you feel and why you feel like that. If he really cares he will listen and change. Anyways hope this helped a little. Goodluck.
2007-03-09 16:48:46 · answer #2 · answered by Kiara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest he goes back to his ex or picks up with the lady he works with and you move on to some one you deserve good luck
2007-03-09 17:04:15 · answer #3 · answered by Leah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him in the dust.... heres why....
1. he lies... HE LIKES HIS EX!
2. hes an overreactive jerk- drop you just because you called him out on feelin for his x... who cares? most people do!
3. he lies again..... Mindgames?!!?
4.he plays MINDGAMES.....
5.hes a hypocrit- 3&4 lol
2007-03-09 16:48:10 · answer #4 · answered by munsee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
2007-03-09 16:45:04 · answer #5 · answered by sad african 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋