there's this guy that.....................?

Question

I really like.we've been friends for 6 years now and I want to ask him out. I 've asked him once and he said sure but I think he forgot about it because we never acually went on the date. that was a while ago. but now my feelings for him have grown and I wast to ask him out more than ever now but I don't know what he would think. he's censetive and I don't want to freak him out. we talk sometimes between classes but they're usually really short conversations. even if I did ask him and he said yes, we wouldn't want anyone to know, not even our parents. how can I ask him out if we wouldn't want people to know? we couldnt date at school, because people would get the idea. besides, that's too weird. I'm stuck. can you please help me?

P.S. we're in the 7th grade.

Answer 1

hmmmm...well u kinda sound like me.....i say u should talk to him and see how he feels and then ask him out according to how everything goes...because ive learned that if u wait and wait on someone...it will never happen...sometimes u just have to get out there and make it happen yourself...especially if u really like the person...or if u dont...u will never know what could have been...and if u really like this guy then go for it...after all the worse that could happen is that he would say no...and if he did...well theres alwayz more fish in the sea...and about not tellin ur parents about it...well i felt the same way...i wanted to keep it a secret...but then i realized...whats the point...u will have to pretend not to talk to him and everything....but u will find out life is SOO MUCH EASIER if u just let all ur feelings out and tell ppl...it doesnt change much..believe me..if nething....it changes for the better...so my advice is to talk to him ...and then ask him out if it goes well...and then talk to ur parents about it..im sure they would understand....it makes u feel so much better once u do...instead of keeping it all bottled up inside...believe me!....well i hope everything works out for u!

Answer 2

Hi, I started my relationship with now my husband like that at school. We were just friends and talked during just classes. I like him, but couldn't ask him out because I was afraid. So my best recommendation is to go out with him, but if you don't want to freak him out, then don't ask as a date. Just plan something with a group of friends first and tell him that you all getting together if he wants to come. Then after a class, mention being hungry or feeling like grabbing something to drink, and say something like "are you in?" or "are you?" something simple, not showing too much interest. Guys get scared or walk away when you show too much interest. You'll see that with the time, he'll get comfortable, and who knows next time may be him asking to grab something. Hey try Jamba Juice =)

Answer 3

First start out by saying hi we have been friends 4 a while now and i was wondering if would u like to go on a date as boyfriend and girlfreind 2 the movies and to dinner saturday around 8;00 by the way my # is. If he says yes ask if u can give him a pet name and then every time you see him say i luv u wateva his pet name is

Answer 4

theres no way that can happen... well... u can ask ur parents to drop u off at the mall cuz ur gonna hang out with him (afterall u were friends for 6 years). Then you can plan a date for that. I'm in 7th too! Good Luck

Answer 5

Meet up after school at some place you both love and just HAVE the date. You don't have to call it a date, just do it.

Answer 6

Be honest with him. Tell him you would like to get to know him better. Ask him if there is a place after school he would like to meet and hang out. If he says no you will be rejected which is just a part of life. If he says yes then you will be happy which is another part of life. Go for it.

Answer 7

Seventh grade is way too immature for dating. He's not a "guy you have known for 6 years", he is a KID you went to elementary school with before you both went on to junior high.

If you were my kid you'd be grounded.

PS- he "forgot" about your "date" because he is a BOY!
Go do your homework!

Answer 8

sounds like my situation... it's kinda hard to go out and not tell people, and where else would you see him if not at school? There wouldn't be any way it would feel like ur even going out... I say try it but don't make him your #1 priority... from my own experience don't let him have your whole heart because he will hurt you, and you don't want to be hurt. Try it out but be careful to how much of your feelings, and thoughts you give him.. good luck!! ♥

Answer 9

Um...your old enough to let people know that your dateing. But just like send him a note or talk to him online and ask him..or if he has a cell phone you can ask him there.

Answer 10

Hey,
This is Monique,
I was in that situation last year, and I didn't want anybody to know or tell the boy I liked him.
But anyways, I think you should tell him you do like him and say that you want to hang out with him, but don't want anybody to know y'all go together, and you don't have to tell anybody, not even your parents or friends, just tell him you want to keep it a secret, and you're good!!!