About three months ago my best friends's gf had to move to another state cuz of her job. They have been together for over a year and a half and r quite serious about each other but now he is starting to doubt the relationship. I keep telling him to wait but the thing is she wont be back for another 6 months. Should he wait for her or end the relationship?
2007-03-09 08:38:07 · 23 answers · asked by ggiro861 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As long as it takes for one of them to get suspicious about the other.
In my opinion, it's always best to meet face to face and resolve things before deciding to end a relationship but if he can't take it anymore, then that's his choice.
Maybe talking openly about it over the phone would be good. Of course, they don't want to create a fight about it. So be careful with the words, tone (etc) used.
In any relationship, be it near or far, the most important element is trust.
It's only 6 months. If they're really serious then both of them would remain loyal to each other.
My advice to you is, best stay out of the situation in case a blow up happens.
2007-03-09 08:48:24 · answer #1 · answered by demi-kun 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That really depends on how He feels, not how people here feel. I was in a long distance relationship for a couple months short of two years, and between them, we only managed to be able to fly to see eachother three times for the weekend... three weekends in two years was hard, there were a few times where we had to take some time off, re-think things, and see if we were right for eachother and could still make the distance, but now that we're back together, it's totally worth it. Got engaged a couple months ago..
On the other hand though, I've seen some not work out. It's up to them. If they are truly in love and meant to be together, it'll work out. If they don't think the relationship is right though, there's nothing you can do about it.
2007-03-09 09:15:50 · answer #2 · answered by Barbara H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
real and true love stands the test of time no matter how far away the other person maybe. if he truly and really loves her then he will wait and if he has doubt then just how much does he love her cause with love there is no doubt, no worries, no fears, etc. so he needs to just be a man and if there is someone else let the your friend know and move on cause seem like he may want to do just that. God Bless
2007-03-09 09:05:16 · answer #3 · answered by sharethalove 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they are pretty serious, he should wait a little longer. I would say as much as a year, but not any longer than that. This is considering that they make arrangements to see each other at least every other month. If that doesn't work out, or one party seems distant in time, then it's a fair to call it quits; but no sooner than a month from now.
2007-03-09 08:50:56 · answer #4 · answered by missgvip 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is he doubting the realtionship? Is there really anything to doubt? He could always go to her or ask to come back even for a day(if he hasnt already). I dont think he should end the realtionship. At least not over the phone. They have been dating for what a year and half. That is a fairly long time and they deserve to talk face to face about this. I hope your friend and his Girlfriend sort it out!!!!!
2007-03-09 08:59:56 · answer #5 · answered by Kiara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question is does he love her? 6 months will fly by if he is willing to wait. If she is the only person he can imagine his life with then he should wait for her. Why is he having doubts because he is lonely, that is just an excuse. Tell him to have fun hanging with his buddies like you before she gets back..
2007-03-09 08:58:45 · answer #6 · answered by Shy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How long have you ever been at the same time? From my experience long distance relationships frequently dont paintings in spite of if it truly concerns how far aside you're from eachother and how plenty you adore eachother. Is there have confidence interior the relationship? in case you are able to connect her in her city then i could if i in my opinion cared approximately her and approximately conserving the relationship at the same time. in view which you will possibly be far-off and not be able to work out eachother in many circumstances that could reason tension in relationships. they want a great style of time and attempt and if the area prohibits you from doing that it prob wont paintings
2016-12-14 15:01:20 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I f the relationship is based on love
, being apart from each other wont , alter your feelings .
It can in fact strengthen the bond !
It is very hard to be away from, the one you love ,
but this is a burden that has to be shouldered,
if you love one another .
It is only someone, who has shallow feelings for their partner , that will use the separation,
as an excuse, to break the whole relationship off .
If he has doubts , he can remain faith full ,
then he does not love her --
the onus is on him ,to tell her,
he does not love her, enough to wait for her .
Separation , it-self , will NEVER,
cause the break-up, between true lovers .
a time limit ,can not be stipulated in loveing relationships .
>^,,^<
2007-03-09 09:03:28 · answer #8 · answered by sweet-cookie 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he is starting to doubt the relationship then there is not one. With the internet chat, telephone, cell phones, and sms messaging distance should not be a problem for a small amount of time.
2007-03-09 09:07:37 · answer #9 · answered by Leah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey,
This is Monique,
He can wait, but a long distance relationship can lead to cheating, (because you don't really know what his girlfriend might be doing).
2007-03-09 09:04:05 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋