i feel like im being whipped in my relationship... i feel like im doing so much for us, but i feel he isnt doing much at all for us... not like he really can, but idk...
anyone else whipped in their relationships?
2007-03-09 08:37:23 · 7 answers · asked by answer! this 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You mean he doesn't put much into the relationship as he should compared to you? If that is the case, then tell him and have a serious discussion with him. It takes two to tango, and love in relationship is like investment, you earn what you put into it.
If he continues in this unfair behaviour then your relationship is doomed to fail.
All the best!/
2007-03-09 09:04:37 · answer #1 · answered by Ebby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nop, the relationship has to be equal and he has to treat you right. If you feel is not doing anything for you guys, then talk to him tell him how you feel and that you love him but you are not happy this way. If he really loves you he will try to change for you if not move on hun.
2007-03-09 17:01:09 · answer #2 · answered by kathernva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's not putting any effort into things, then why continue the relationship? Is this what you want? You have the right to be very choosy on exactly what you want. Think about this very closely.
2007-03-09 17:01:40 · answer #3 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm... well my man and i are having issues...it never feels good to feel unappreciated or like you're the one who's doing most or all of the work...maybe, pull back...stop putting in so much energy and effort and observe his respnse...does he chase after you? los interest? figure out if he's just comfortable by changing how you approach him a bit...see if he's taking you for granted...why do you say he can't do anything for the relationship?
2007-03-09 17:02:43 · answer #4 · answered by SUGAR 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol...being whipped means u dont exercise any freedom in the relationship, ur opinion is based on what your bf thinks or what he has to say...
2007-03-09 16:56:23 · answer #5 · answered by ♦cat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope, its either a win/win situation or i'm gone!
2007-03-09 16:55:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only with my dominatrix.
2007-03-09 16:53:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋