Okay... I posted a question a couple of days ago about my boyfriend and I moving into the same place where his ex-girlfriend and her boyfriend live. And I talked to my boyfriend about it and he thinks that we should still move there just see if we can get in a different building. There are like 10 or 12 different apartment buildings there, but should that sound an alarm in my head? Does he want to be near his ex?! We have been together for almost 2 1/2 years now but still. They were together for 5 1/2. I would feel fine living in a different building but should I worry because he doesn't feel any different about it? I am fine as long as we are in a different building yes but at the same time I feel kind of uneasy about it. They have a community pool there for the tendents and fitness room... whats saying we wont run into them there?! What should I think?
2007-03-09 08:34:58 · 7 answers · asked by starbabie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It totally depends on if you trust him ! Even if you don't like her ,if he's trustworthy then that should be enough. If he's not then he can or will cheat no matter where you guys live.If that is the case then you shouldn't be with him ,You will just always worry what he is doing ! Don't sell yourself short. You shouldn't have to babysit a grown man ! There ARE good ones out there! I know cause I'm lucky enough to have one !
2007-03-09 08:49:50 · answer #1 · answered by K.Heat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't get paranoid about your boyfriend WANTING to be close to her. If he wants to see her, and/or have an affair he is going to do that in a more sneakily way. If its going to make you uncomfortable, don't do it. Just explain, you aren't jealous or untrusting you just don't feel like it would be a good idea. There are so many places to live there's no reason to put yourself through that.
2007-03-09 17:01:38 · answer #2 · answered by tustudent 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it makes you uncomfortable, don't move there.
This is where you are going to live and call home. Even if it is in another building.
2007-03-09 16:38:14 · answer #3 · answered by Rose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you all live in the same city. so whats to say they wont run in to each other at the gas station?
2007-03-09 17:01:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is yours now, dont worry about the ex, who has another b/f herself anyway! i understand you dont want to be buddies with the ex and her new guy, but running into them and being polite is no biggy!!
2007-03-09 16:38:30 · answer #5 · answered by sydneygal 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. It sounds a bit fishy to me.
2007-03-09 16:38:26 · answer #6 · answered by MJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
? is this the only place in your area......try some where else.....cause this will be some stuff.....true that......
2007-03-09 16:40:01 · answer #7 · answered by sad african 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋