how is that even possible? I have feelings for them both, i love them both in diff. ways..i dont know what to do b/c i dont want to let ether one go...help! give me some suggestion on how to handle this
2007-03-09 08:31:57 · 20 answers · asked by Bee 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This has happened to me before. There's two hott guys that you care about and you don't want either of them to go, right? So what i did was, you find the one that you care about the most. Not just that but the one that will love you back. YOU matter the most.
2007-03-09 08:38:32 · answer #1 · answered by Karramill 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well this is really something to consider. You already know you can't have both. Consider this....you may love both of them, but are you "in love" with both? If your feelings are that split between the two of them, take some time to write down what it is about each that draws you to him. Once you discover why you have feelings for both, then maybe that can help you make a decision. Also, consider the fact that if your feelings are so torn between them, perhaps you aren't truley in love with either.
2007-03-09 08:37:26 · answer #2 · answered by Melissa 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u may love both of them but sit and think about this which one are u in love with. And u aint got to let either one go but u can be only friends with one unless u dont care about how they are going to feel.
2007-03-09 08:35:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do some deep soul searching. maybe its just an efatuation and not love at all I realized that love is a very strong word and to only use it when you mean it. If there is a conflict on who you like then maybe you should be single for a while.
2007-03-09 08:36:28 · answer #4 · answered by Jmack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you don't like either one enough to be satisified with just one or the other. Do the right thing and let both guys find a woman who wants them and them only.
2007-03-09 08:36:19 · answer #5 · answered by Tiger by the Tail 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Choose the one that you have a better connection with. The one that has more of what you find important in a relationship, the same values, ideas, morals. The same level of education, the same work ethics. etc. God bless****
2007-03-09 08:36:27 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Choose the one who loves you back. If they both love you back, pick the one you can see yourself growing old with, the one who makes you laugh, the one who makes you feel most beautiful...if all else fails, pick the one who knows how to fix stuff!
2007-03-09 08:36:27 · answer #7 · answered by trillian 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell both men that you will be happier with the other one. The one that is happy for you is the keeper.
2007-03-09 08:34:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out with some other guy... neither of the 2. whichever one gets nasty about it leave go and go straight to the nice guy cause he wants whats best for you! yeahhhhhhhhh thats what were lookin for cause theres no sense in dating a guy that wants whats best for him when it comes to you....
2007-03-09 08:43:05 · answer #9 · answered by munsee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
UH!! Go for the guy that TRULY loves you.. not just some who is scared for a commitment.
2007-03-09 08:34:27 · answer #10 · answered by xEmoxKidx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋