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Ladies, have any of you been offered "special attention" or happy endings when you have received a massage? If so, what was offered and did you accept? Was your masseuse male or female?

2007-03-09 08:18:36 · 6 answers · asked by Kurt G 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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You would have to go to a pretty low grade massage parlor to have that happen, or a whore house. I'm a massage therapist and I have NEVER offered "special attention" and no self respecting professional therapist would.

2007-03-09 08:28:40 · answer #1 · answered by Kara 3 · 0 0

I'll forward to you a "related" answer to your question I just did for someone a couple of days ago regarding massage:

I am a Texas State Licensed Massage Therapist, but currently not practicing.

I have what people call "the touch" meaning that positive energy by my touch reverberates in the receiver's body. I respond to how a person reacts; essentially "reading" muscle reactions to my touch to know if to press lighter or heavier, or to totally avoid an area. I've been told that I have had this gift (from God) since I was 10 or 11 yrs old, when I would massage my sister's back and stroke her arms when I would spend the nights with her. It grew from there to family get-togethers and family members would line up for me to do back or feet massages. For years and years, friends and family would ask me why I don't go to massage school and do this line of work.

I was under the false impression that it was tied in to much to the sex trade, and I did not want the stigma, nor did I want any overtures from any male clients.

So, life went on until 9-11 when I lost my job and was unemployed for 11 months. I looked into massage school and went to their orientation. That's when I saw how clean and decent it is taught - from the medical standpoint. So, I took the classes, took their clinical, and took the state exam.

The physical application of massage is incredibly labor-intensive and you have to be in good to great physical shape to keep up with it. I found it too grueling, physically, so I have left it in the "hobby" status. I only had a couple of clients. No big deal.

And in the meantime, I work full time and part time work, and would not be able to squeeze the massage work in at this time. I've thought about Massage Envy and other salons to work at part time mornings, but since I just married, and my hubby has special needs (he's a paraplegic from stroke), any massaging I intend to do is for his therapy first.

During clinic, I massaged people for several hours each week (at the school), and I found it to be emotionally stimulating. To make a person relax, breath softly, it's like putting a baby to sleep, so calm and soothing. You feel satisfaction of helping someone cope with the stresses of life. You make people happy. You help them medically by improving their circulation, ridding their system of toxins. Just overall, you love their bodies for them, and then return their bodies back to them refreshed and ready to greet the rest of the week.

It's hard to explain. I'd rathar massage someone than be massaged, as I get more satisfaction that direction than the other. And I prefer females. I always thought I'd prefer guys, but guys just react differently to massage, and a female has to be on her toes and be prepared to quickly and bluntly end the session if the male client gets out of control. It's just one of the hazards of the business.

So, it's just a way of being a servant. A servant who contributes to the health of other people by the gift and training of massage therapy.

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2007-03-09 18:01:39 · answer #2 · answered by YRofTexas 6 · 0 1

Nope, my massage therapist is female- my little sister.

2007-03-09 16:40:33 · answer #3 · answered by wrjones559_1999 3 · 0 0

no has never happened....always get a massage by a woman

2007-03-09 16:22:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

never.....they would loose their license...strictly professional

2007-03-09 16:21:50 · answer #5 · answered by sunbun 6 · 0 0

No

2007-03-09 16:21:55 · answer #6 · answered by prettybird 2 · 0 0

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