i have a boyfriend... he treats me like absolute gold... treats me so nice, takes me out for fancy meals... tells me that im the one he's gonna have a family with and everythin
but...
iv been out with this man before. last time he claimed that he didn't love me and wanted something casual and after we broke up for about two months he asked me back out and has completly changed.
All th things he's said however in the past i just cant seem to get over and forget! i just dont know what to do.
would you stay with him or look elsewhere???
thanks
2007-03-09 08:16:44 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i'd stay with him untill it's been proven that he's not the one for you. good luck!
2007-03-09 08:19:11 · answer #1 · answered by goo. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look girl... you need to dump him! Especially what he said in the past. He aint worth it. He may have changed but did he do that to any other guys and you dont know bout it. If i was in your shoes dump him!!! Move on get a new life... there are plenty of other fish in the sea!!!
2007-03-09 16:29:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
hello there. Give him a chance. Sounds to me like he realised just how much you meant to him when you broke up and wants to make things right this time. I hope it all works out for you. x x
2007-03-13 16:03:08 · answer #3 · answered by picklexxx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think maybe he got out all of his casual dating and all his commitment fears from last time u went out. I think maybe when he realized he wanted to find someone to be serious with, he thought of you. So, give him a chance to prove to u he is ready to be serious now.
2007-03-09 16:31:29 · answer #4 · answered by meshelle2kz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't get over what happened look elsewhere. You probably could get over if it if you tried but it doesn't sound like you want to. You're wasting his time and your own.
2007-03-09 16:26:05 · answer #5 · answered by Andrea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is tough! i would try him one more time to see if he has changed for the better. If not, there are always plenty more fish in the sea... sometimes even hott, sweet, strong fish! Good Luck with your Mr. Right!
2007-03-09 16:22:42 · answer #6 · answered by Ms. Nathan Laine♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe it would be best to go your seperate ways for a while...since you cant seem to forget what hes done to you in the past. How can you love someone when you cant forgive them?
2007-03-09 16:20:47 · answer #7 · answered by oxygenO 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"I have long since come to believe that people never mean half of what they say, and that it is best to disregard their talk and judge only their actions."
-- Dorothy Day, The Long Loneliness, 1952
. US editor & reformer (1897 - 1980)
Hope that helps.
2007-03-09 17:16:00 · answer #8 · answered by Shaman 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forget the past you can't change that. You can change your future....
If you're happy keep it going and see how things pan out.
Good Luck!!!
2007-03-09 16:20:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd stay but if he acts a little strange or says that again it's cool to think about but u gotta let him go
2007-03-09 16:24:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋