im thinkin about becoming friends with my lovers wife... what do u think?... imagine, that way i can know when they're not together and i can find stuff about him that can really help me in my relationship with him.
anyways let me know.
2007-03-09 08:11:05 · 37 answers · asked by LOLA 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
girlfriend, go for it. have u heard the phrase 'by any means necessary'? do any and everything u need to do to get and keep ur man. i would do it.
2007-03-09 08:18:30 · answer #1 · answered by tiffany171720052005 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
So are you the other woman? No..I don't think you should become friends with his wife..for alot of reasons. First, getting involve w/ someone who's married (whether he's sepparated, or promises you he'll divorce her..etc etc) is not right. Second, you deserve your OWN guy, not some body else's husband. And third, if you do become friends w/ his wife, once she finds out about all this...you'll be hurting a friendship.
I don't think you should ever be the third wheel, and ruin ppl's family/marriage. Also, don't try to befriend someone unless you really want a genuine friendship.
But no matter how much advice we all give you not to hurt other people or yourself, it's gonna be up to you. And ultimately try and use your conscience.
2007-03-09 08:20:32 · answer #2 · answered by Me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you involved with someone who is married? What you have is not a relationship. All you will ever be is he other woman. Will that be enough for you. This man apparently has not left his wife yet and probably never will.Even if he does, do you really think that you will ever feel secure in his love knowing that he has been unfaithful to someone he was married to? Get out while you can and find someone that is deserving of your love.
2007-03-09 08:28:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends with the lady whose marriage your destroying geez lets see i say no definitely no, come on what's going to happen when she finds out , put your self in her shoes and not just on her husbands penisssssss
2007-03-09 08:18:06 · answer #4 · answered by seialie (pronounced sally) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No!!!! isnt it bad enough your sleeping with her husband, but you now want to use her to gain information about him!! this is not friendship, it is the selfish act of an immature, insecure and morally questionable personality, leave her alone, you've done enough!
2007-03-09 08:17:06 · answer #5 · answered by sydneygal 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are immoral having an affair with a married man. It would be sick to make friends with his wife as well.
2007-03-09 08:14:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So he is cheating on his wife and his wife knows about it? What in the hell is goin on? and Why is she still with Him she must really love him. and your just ruining their marriage. why don't you just find a male prostitute. Why don't you bang something else instead of ruining someones marriage you horndog, husssy bicth.
2007-03-09 08:21:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats such a bad idea when she finds out normally she will be crushed but if she finds out that her husband was cheating on her with a friend well than you might as well just kill her
2007-03-09 08:19:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you asking to be friends with a man that your cheating with wife? are you serious? Your jealous of his wife do you see the irony here?
2007-03-09 08:14:26 · answer #9 · answered by schristine23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. It's bad enough that your having sex with her husband. She doesn't need a fake friend. Find out about him yourself.
2007-03-09 08:16:11 · answer #10 · answered by kdd_angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, I think in the long run you will get jealous of the two of them.
2007-03-09 08:14:19 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋