I need help. I feel like I am in the war zone, and I can never give the people I care about enough attention! My sister is really struggling with her weight, my mom works night shift, I only see my dad once a week, and I have a boyfriend. My sister hates my boyfriend, my dad likes to have time with just me and him, my boyfriend likes to have time with just me and him...and I feel swamped. I always feel guilty, or feel like I am neglecting someone, and there is usually not a week that goes by that I don't get into a fight with one of them about not being there for them. I don't want any suggestions about dumping or dropping any of them...I love them all, and am keeping them all. But if you have any tips on how I can harmonize this I would really appreciate it!
2007-03-09 08:01:16 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
U need to arrange times to get together with all of them but u need to put your own needs first.
2007-03-09 10:47:17 · answer #1 · answered by wildpalomino 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are neglecting someone......YOURSELF.
What do YOU want? Who do you want to spend YOUR time with, how much, when, with whom?
You have 24 hours in each day, make them work for YOU.
2007-03-09 09:02:37 · answer #2 · answered by Carol D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋