We were making out and I jokingly told her she is a good friend and she got kinda upset and said she is more than just my friend. I aksed her what she is then and she said she dunno. I left it at that.
She told me she is not seeing anyone else, that she is only dating one person, someone she likes a lot (hinting at me obviously).
When we first started dating, she told me she doesn't make out until in a relationship, but we make out now, though on our profiles it still says we are both single.
A few weeks ago she told me she is afraid she is falling for me and is gonna get hurt again, that it would be a while before she could committ to anything too serious. I take that to mean that things are more than casual but not serious, though it could be one day.
She thinks I'm in love with her, I told her I think she with me. We are in our mid twenties and have only been on two dates!!! Though we have been talking longer than that.
What does she want!?!? Is it too soon for more?
2007-03-09 07:36:54 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're making out. She already told you that she doesn't make out with someone unless she's in a relationship. Therefore, she believes she's in a relationship or she wouldn't be making out with you. And you are somewhere between more than casual but not serious. I don't think you need womanese translation. You need to be honest with yourself and her.
2007-03-09 07:44:10 · answer #1 · answered by alikilee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my translation of this is : she likes but is scared to commit not knowing what is going to happen and if she does commit is she going to hurt or not.
In ironic way, she has told u that she like you a lot. Knowing that you to are dating she seems no6t know where it is going and may want to know where u to are going to take it? just some suggestions : One is ask here if she wants more, two set and think and see if ur ready to make it more serious. and formost Make sure that you carwe for her the same she does u. in other words is the feelin mutual? good luck
2007-03-09 07:45:39 · answer #2 · answered by bigbadwolf10376 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she likes you but is afraid to put herself out there because she doesn't want to get hurt or rejected. Sounds like you guys need to quit hinting at stuff and just sit down and have a talk. Figure out what it is you want out of this relationship and talk to her about it, that way you won't have to wonder and neither will she.
2007-03-09 07:49:12 · answer #3 · answered by Vivita 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart, not whats between your legs. She obviously has some deep feelings for you but doesn't want to get hurt. Both of you sit down and talk out your feelings. Set some ground rules until you both see where this thing is going. I wish you both happiness.
2007-03-09 07:46:26 · answer #4 · answered by sarge 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How about you ask her what she wants. She will probably say I don't know, but ask her anyway. What is seems is she does not want to call you her BF for what ever reason, but still wants to know you are only dating her. She wants to know you have the same feelings she does, and are on the same page. Just let her know you are falling for her to, and that you can go at any pace she wants.
2007-03-09 08:02:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
From the sounds of it she wants you but is scared of commitment so its a hard one too call, maybe the best person to talk to it about is her just ask what she thinks and let her know what you think and see how it works out !
2007-03-09 07:42:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wants you to let her know that you are also falling in love with her.
She probly keeps that she is single in her profile cos she is afraid the relationship isnt gonna last. If you tell her that you love her, and that your not gonna break off the relationship
2007-03-09 07:41:09 · answer #7 · answered by jackiebrawdy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 24 and i still can't translate womanese. Even the brightest of minds struggle to crack the language. Whatever it means, i wish you the best of luck and hope you are both happy in your endeavor
2007-03-09 07:44:51 · answer #8 · answered by aphotic nostrum 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is trying to be cautious. She wants you to tell her how you feel, before she can really tell you how she feels. She probalby is ready for the next step of being your girlfriend, if that is what you want.
2007-03-09 07:42:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wants you to be there for her, and not use her for s -e-x. Take heed of her feelings. If you want something more with her, take your time. Spend time with her and have less physical contact.
2007-03-09 07:40:47 · answer #10 · answered by ♥michele♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋