I used to have a huge crush on this sweet and really hot guy Nathan. I found out he liked me, he asked me what my name was, and we became really close friends. We would talk on the phone, and hang out. But about 2 weeks ago, 3 months later after he asked my name, he wanted me to make out with him, and I couldn't make it for our little "Make Out SessionS" so he got pist at me and so he stopped talking to me for about a month and now starting about on Monday this week he is talking to me again... he asked me out, I don't think he can commit, because when we were going to make out, he had a girlfriend at the same time. Should I give him a try and go out with him, or should I just leave him alone?
I don't want to get hurt by him being with me and secretly seeing another chick. He's already hurt me about 10 times. I can't just get stepped on. But he is so sweet when he wants to be.
If you say I should leave him alone, how am I supposed to get over not having him he is my dream guy Help!
2007-03-09 07:25:26 · 13 answers · asked by TaraKara3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
leave it alone.
He was already contemplating cheating on his then girlfriend. Why would you want to set yourself up to get hurt? Unless, of course you are not looking for a relationship, and just want to play around.
2007-03-09 07:29:53 · answer #1 · answered by Jack Chedeville 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a user! He probably figures that he has punished you enough to get you to fall into bed with him and is giving you another go. You should never sleep with someone who wouldn't be there for you if you have a baby. This good looking creep would be out of there so fast it would make your head spin to say nothing about what your poor little heart would do. He sounds so manipulative and if you can figure out that kind of guy now, it will save you a life time of hurt. Learn your lesson the first time it's presented to you because live will keep hitting you with it until you do. Good Luck and God Bless you
2007-03-09 15:33:50 · answer #2 · answered by moonrose777 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your dream guy is the type that cheats on his girlfriends and doesn't talk to good women because "making out" isn't always on the top of their schedule, then I would say you could find hundreds of that kind of man. But if you want someone who is sweet ALL the time, not just when he wants to be, then I would say hold out for that one. In my opinion, this guy seems like a jerk who would just hurt you again. You deserve far better than that. You seem like a smart girl. Don't expect him to change.
Good luck, sweetheart.
2007-03-09 15:33:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear you, why us girls and women tend to think that someone playing with our heart like a yo-yo is our dream man?
Just asking myself as you put is so nicely for us to think about it and take a good breath!
Yes! Why?
Then some men know the tricks to keep us hanging on...
And we do.
Then one day, the thread breaks and we are free.
Finally... and then we realise, that we are relieved... and living again...
So, it is maybe just a question of waiting for the right time when you will quit it very easily as you are spent.
2007-03-09 15:40:41 · answer #4 · answered by klaartedubois 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter what anyone tells you, ultimately it's up to you to make the decision. I say do what your heart tells you and just be prepared for a heartache, cause if the guy was making out with you while dating another girl he doesn't sound so sweet.
2007-03-09 15:29:56 · answer #5 · answered by arsehole_adam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait, I thought you were a pregnant 16 year old with a boyfriend who can't talk on the phone.... does this Nathan kid know this, or is he as "real" as everything else you've said??
2007-03-09 15:38:10 · answer #6 · answered by Mommy to Boys 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems like he just wants to use u ... any guy that cheats on his girlfriend will cheat and hurt you again ... u let him hurt u too many times already
2007-03-09 15:30:38 · answer #7 · answered by sandy s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think he is a player and u should leave him alone. if u don't want to give him up then i would say to give him a chance.
2007-03-09 15:30:35 · answer #8 · answered by ivelisse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him alone,and find another 'dream guy help' and you will get over him,and you'll be happy
2007-03-09 15:31:40 · answer #9 · answered by angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make out with him
2007-03-09 15:29:27 · answer #10 · answered by Snake 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋