I love my boyfriend but sometimes he's kind of mean to me and when i do something wrong he hits me and says 'NO.' For example today he wanted something i was holding and he did that. Usually he doesnt hit very hard just a little bit and it kinda stings a little. Is this wrong?
2007-03-09 07:23:37 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Something tells me that its not all that lightly.
If it makes you uncomfortable, you need to assert yourself. Because it sounds like it disturbs you. And if this is the case, you need to let him know. Or haul off and b*itch slap him back.
Sounds like a brat ahole. Throwing tantrums...is what babies do!
2007-03-09 07:30:04 · answer #1 · answered by Bathroom Graffiti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the hitting is done in play it is fine but the minute it is done as a corrective process or for any other reason then it could be the beginning of an abusive relationship. Have you told him that it bothers you and has he made an effor to stop? If not then get out before it gets worse.
By the way, the situation you describe of him hitting you lightly and saying no is something one might use with a pet not a person.
2007-03-09 07:30:20 · answer #2 · answered by grk_tigris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
absolutely NOT It is one thing if you have a relationshi were during sex you do role playing and you both agree to it. But if your boyfriend is treating you like a little Kid whose parent slaps them when they do something wrong ( and that is not right either) then he needs to be told "lay a hand on me again and your out of here" it is a form of abuse which will only become more bolder as your relationship goes on. If I was you I would run for the hills. He Probably is very controlling and know relaitionship ever comes of any good if one of the partners are controling. Am I correct in thinking you are in you teens?
2007-03-09 07:34:14 · answer #3 · answered by dldouc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it's wrong. If he is going to hit you he needs to keep that pimp hand strong. Come on now, them b*tches need to be put in there place... okay do I have your attention? He is treating you like a dog not a person. When you train a dog you sometimes give them a little smack and say NO. That is what he is doing to you. Are you a dog? Are you a child? Next time he does this kick him square in the balls, and say if you ever touch me like that again I will have you arrested. Yes you need to go extreme so he knows you are seriouse.
2007-03-09 07:32:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look if he's hiting you at all then I just don't think that you are in a good situation. He may only hit you "soft" now but what if the hits become more harder and more frequent. I say that you talk with him and tell him about how you feel about him putting his hands on you. It doesn't show a sign of love or respect when your mate hits you. Good luck
2007-03-09 07:29:26 · answer #5 · answered by ltwatkins77 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't mention your age. Regardless of your ages, though, hitting someone else is wrong (other than self defense). If you are young, he needs to learn that striking someone just to get his way can have some real consequences (assault/battery charges). If you are older, then he knows better. Look out.
Hint: if he hits you now, he will continue to hit you, and it will progress to harder and harder hits. My suggestion would be to find another bf (one that doesn't hit). Good luck!
2007-03-09 07:34:43 · answer #6 · answered by Hootiesplace 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly the canines don't understand why they are being "spanked" and should not do plenty good. a greater effective technique is to compliment them for doing good and not something for being undesirable. in the event that they potty interior the living house it somewhat is terrific to %. up the poop no remember if it somewhat is #2 and positioned it outdoors then positioned the canines outdoors...with it somewhat is own sent there it is going to get the hint....yet it appears that evidently like they are getting that. it somewhat is complicated them with the pee pads of they use those in any respect. in many situations those are basically a chunk toy to a domestic dog like almost each and every thing else! tell him to have greater sufferers and that spanking isn't understood by using them. compliment/no compliment is greater effective and does not make the canines petrified of you.
2016-10-17 23:31:35 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No hitting is good, especially when he is accompanying it with the words "NO"...sounds more like something you would tell your pet or child. He is testing to see how far he can go and how much he can get away with. Don't allow it, you deserve better.
2007-03-09 07:31:32 · answer #8 · answered by ☼ Latina Loca loves Yayo ☼ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask, then yes it is wrong! A man should never hit a woman. That's abuse. Dump him before you really get hurt.
2007-03-09 07:27:18 · answer #9 · answered by Starla_C 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is very wrong. You need to tell him to stop, or he'll think you're alright with it and take it up a notch. Trust me, you don't want this cycle to start...
The next time he does it, leave - if he goes after you, then he wants you. But if he lets you go, then he didn't deserve you. Stand up for yourself, hun!
2007-03-09 07:28:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋