Would you be ok if a guy that you were in love with was still talking to other women? Would you keep seeing him? Or is it being possessive to not want to have to share them with anyone else?
2007-03-09 07:18:17 · 28 answers · asked by geminig 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he continues talking about other women, it may be a sign of one of two things:
a) he does not like to remain faithful to one woman alone, or does not have the capacity to, or
b) he is still in love with, or smitten with, those other women he speaks of.
Either way, pursuing him is not a good idea until you know where he stands in relation to those other women. Good luck, and I hope things turn out right for you.
2007-03-09 07:23:21 · answer #1 · answered by txofficer2005 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No girl wants to have to share their man. I mean, the first thing that pops in our head is, "Omg, he is talking to another girl. He must be cheating on me. He likes her or she likes him."
Really in a relationship we should have patience, trust, and understanding. If you are not able to trust him then you need to decide if this is the kind of relationship you want. If you love someone you will have patience, trust, and understanding with a lot of other things. You will know that if he is talking to another girl nothing will ever happen because he loves you.
If you don't believe this then maybe you don't trust him, and maybe there is a reason.
2007-03-09 15:22:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't be ok for the simple fact that I am in love with him. You don't want to see the person you want to be with with someone else that's just human nature. Would I keep seeing him? No I don't think I could. It would just be asking for a more broken heart in the long run.
2007-03-09 15:21:52 · answer #3 · answered by tlspates1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I just had this problem... I asked myself if I really loved him. And I do. So I just talked to him about it. I just told him I want him to have friends. And girl friends are ok. But I want to be the only women in his life that he loves.
2007-03-09 15:24:11 · answer #4 · answered by Manda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends, really. Is he ignoring you during social events so that he can talk to other women? If so, that is totally inappropriate and a lack of respect for you.
However, if you are present, and the conversations are casual and not flirtatious, it is probably OK and nothing to worry about.
2007-03-09 15:22:24 · answer #5 · answered by Jack Chedeville 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I'd be okay with it, as long as I am holding the cards. I find it challenging when a man is interested in me and other women at the same time.
Because I know I can totally win him over. And I'd use their insecurities to boost my stock.
That's just the way the game is played sometimes. You have to rise to the occasion if he's worth it.
2007-03-09 15:22:24 · answer #6 · answered by Bathroom Graffiti 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well if he is just like talking to the woman it should be okay because maybe there just friends but if he flirts with the women and if its one of his exs there might be a problem. If you trust him then you should have no problem letting him talk to woman. But try to let him have some fun with his friends if they are his friends and give him alil space and trust him
2007-03-09 15:24:15 · answer #7 · answered by Becky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally get what you are saying. I would confont him about it..If you think there i something going on. My bf doesn't do that anymore well he didn't really do it with me anyway but i have had it happen. If you don't want to risk getting your heart broken(not saying it is going to happen) then just leave now. I know it is hard but in the long run you can find Mr.Right sooner. Good luck
2007-03-09 15:27:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy isn't going to get you very far. No one likes a jealous partner. As long as he isn't flirting with them in front of your or doing other stuff with them he shouldn't be you shouldn't worry. If he is then hes not the right guy for you anyways.
2007-03-09 15:24:46 · answer #9 · answered by belli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm...are you two actually in a relationship? I think this is something you should talk to the guy about. If you're in a acommitted relationship, and he's talking to other women in a flirting manner, then talk to him about it and let him know how you feel. It has to go both ways.
2007-03-09 15:22:05 · answer #10 · answered by qtpie831 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋