i dont think its weird but they tell me if my real boy is cheating on me i can use my "bestfriend"!!!!!!!Dont hate
2007-03-09 07:17:18 · 18 answers · asked by becky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you already have a boyfriend I don't think it's right to use your so-called best friend. If your boyfriend is cheating on you dump his *** and move one. Don't use your bestboyfriend to get back at him because someone could end up getting hurt.
Even if you didn't have a boyfriend the friends with benefits things is cool if the two of you can handle it, but nine times out of ten one of the people is going to catch feelings and get hurt.
2007-03-09 07:21:08 · answer #1 · answered by geminig 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i don't hate you kid but--think about this, you are giving yourself away like a bagged lunch, save yourself for love, married love, no matter what guys say-- i don't care if they shout it from the rooftops-- . They do not respect or think highly of you and this is why so many guys find it easy to cheat--they use you for sex--- the oldest story in the book,-- because they think with their genitels. Hey- they are the USERS-- girls are the use-ees. Then you girls cry and call each other up when the guy you loved marries some sweet young thing. It's worse than weird what you are doing, its fornication. but I guess these wise words fall on deaf ears.
2007-03-09 07:27:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you want to lower yourself to his level, then is your call.
I still don’t think is ok to just go and cheat because the other person cheated. If you consider that cheating is wrong (and obviously you do because you want revenge), then why would you go and do it too?
And I also have another question, if people tell you that is ok to go and kill your father and your mother because they punished you, are you gonna listen to them too?
I know the answer. And is NO. Why? Because is wrong, and because you love them (hopefully). Well, if you apply the same to what they told you about cheating, you should come up with a real good answer.
Of course, if you just want revenge, go ahead and cheat, in fact, video tape it and show it to him. I’m sure he will be very pissed off. But I don’t think that is the answer. Besides, it will make you feel worse later on.
Do what you have to do.
2007-03-09 07:26:16 · answer #3 · answered by Dan D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's your life right??? Use people all you want!!! but the question is why? why do you have to have sex with your guy friend? why can't you find someother guy who wont cheat on you??? Why can't you be happy just doing your thing without having to: 1 have a boyfriend and 2 playing with others emotions...
hahaha! I wish I would have known chicks were so sluttly earlier....would have saved me a lot of time effort and money!!! LOL!!!
If you ask me...I'd say you're insecure and need and also crave too much attention...
2007-03-09 07:23:31 · answer #4 · answered by Dave B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-23 17:46:36 · answer #5 · answered by taguchi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, because me and bestboyfriend are friends with benefits.
2007-03-09 07:34:54 · answer #6 · answered by Ashley R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as one of you don't get romatic about the situation. You should also lay everything on the table at the start. Don't assume the other person wants the same thing.
2007-03-09 07:21:02 · answer #7 · answered by TMac 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think its awsome to have a friend with ebnifits because when u do that its not concidered cheating but u always have a back up lol
2007-03-09 07:20:11 · answer #8 · answered by lilwhiteboy93@yahoo.com 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Friends with benefits are great!
2007-03-09 07:19:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes, I think it's weird and a bit morally sick.
2007-03-09 07:20:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋