I really love this girl who never liked me the same way I liked her. After four months of us talking, she told me she was falling in love with someone else and that a couple of her friends were falling in love too. I panicked and told a friend what she said. I was afraid of her liking someone else besides me. I left out the names of her friends when I told him. He figured out who and teased her friends about falling in love, so the girl I like got mad at me and wouldn't talk to me. At the time I didn't know better to not say anything at all that we talked about. I gave her space for two months, then we had a small conversation until her bus came and I asked her if she was still mad at me. She told me no, she just didn't want to talk to me anymore. Ten months later and during all that time I thought about her every day like I had been doing. Since then we just rarely say hi to each other but I desire so much more. Sometimes I catch her sneaking glances at me.
2007-03-09 06:35:10 · 6 answers · asked by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I decided to tell her how I really feel about her and that I just want us to be friends again. The only thing is that I love her. I also think she's got to be the most beautiful girl I've ever seen even though my boys and parents think she's just alright. I think she's sweet and that she has everything I've been looking for in a girl. I implied I was in love with her the last time we talked (Ten months ago online), saying "peope do stupid things when they're in love." She said " YOU WAS NOT IN LOVE, so dont say that, stop talking like that!" The conversation ended with me saying "It wasn't lust, but it's fine if you think I never loved you." I don't think I said that last sentence right, I meant that I respected her thought but she may have thought something else because she said "whatever" and signed off ten minutes afterward with no reply from me (I gave up). I thought I should give her more space.
2007-03-09 06:35:36 · update #1
I miss her and I want to tell her how I really feel, but do I need to keep the fact that I love her to myself to keep from scaring her off or worse?
2007-03-09 06:35:47 · update #2
I just want to let her know I care about her and there's no one like her. Her 17th birthday's in a couple of weeks (we're a month and a couple weeks apart in age, I'm older) what do I get for her (if anything, if I should (I want to) or shouldn't)
2007-03-09 06:36:37 · update #3
She's been in my dreams almost every night.
2007-03-09 06:40:53 · update #4
Is it a good thing that I love her despite how she treats me? I wonder if maybe she cut me off because she doesn't want to get hurt in case I'm too good to be true. Boys have dated her friends and told them they loved them, had sex with them (the girl I love is the only virgin in her main group) and dumped them.
2007-03-09 12:22:13 · update #5
I have not bothered her or anything during this separation, but we say hi to each other from time to time.
2007-03-09 12:41:40 · update #6
She seems not to interested in you. Maybe you should just move on. She has had plenty of chances to be more than a friend to you. You are just setting yourself up for more hurt. Can't make someone love you back. Find someone who could love you back. At least leave her behind while you still have your dignity. Don't play the fool. Maybe after awhile with you ignoring her, she will come to you. Maybe she likes to do the chasing. Give it a try.
2007-03-09 12:31:58 · answer #1 · answered by peach 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should write her a letter and tell her how u fell sometimes its better for your feelings to come out when u write after u give her the letter and she doesn't feel the same way i would suggest to let her go.. and plus you are young and u most likely will find ur love when the time is right just member that there is a special someone waiting for us and u don't have to just be obsessed with one girl lol =) good luck with everything and hope that u get over her if she doesn't respond
2007-03-09 15:29:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to break it off all together because you can not seem to see that it will not go any further. This is hard but it will help in the long run. Been there
2007-03-09 14:51:37 · answer #3 · answered by princess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've already TRIED to tell her how you feel and SHE'S NOT INTERESTED. What's she got to do to get that point across to you? Get a restraining order?
You blew it telling your pall what she told you. OK, so you didn't name names, still he figured it out and that means YOU BLEW IT!!
Get counseling if you need to but get over it and move on with your life!!
2007-03-09 20:27:25 · answer #4 · answered by Jackie Blue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her how u feel, but let her think about it and react in her own way, but don't bug her about how u love her or else it will scare her off
2007-03-09 22:17:09 · answer #5 · answered by Me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should definately try again. maybe she might see you as the guy that really loves her eventually.
2007-03-09 19:50:16 · answer #6 · answered by Curios 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋