We have a long distance relationship, and he hasn't emailed me in nine 1/2 days. I emailed him on Wednesday to see if he was okay, but he hasn't responded. Earlier on back in January he broke up with me for three weeks and then we got back together. Wednesday was our anniversary and he forgot. The thing is, when I see him, he treats me so well, like I am the most beautiful, special thing on earth, and he gives me hugs and hangs out with me. But then he ignores me and treats me like crap when we're not together. And everytime he does something wrong I immediately forgive him (even if he doesn't say he's sorry!) and forget about it! I am so crazy for him! What can I do to become more assertive?? I am seeing him tomorrow for the first time in two weeks...how should I act around him after what he's done???
Back 2 1/2 weeks ago he was supposed to go to a play with me...never showed up...and I FORGAVE HIM!!! I am such an idiot!
Listen to stuck by stacie orrico...that's how I feel!!!!
2007-03-09 06:32:47 · 8 answers · asked by horsesareforever 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't want to be super mean to him because before we were bf/gf we were really great friends, and if we ever break up I want to be friends w/ him again! And he switched drama classes for September 2007 to be with me, so I can't do anything horrible to him....
2007-03-09 06:35:34 · update #1
i don't know the answer to that to be honest with you. (lol cuz i'm guy what do you expect), i know would respond best to talked to about it face to face. if it didn't change anything if were you i would tell him that you want to step a little bit back from the relationship, not to much but enough to get him to pay attention and let him know that it's seriously bugging you. if that doesn't work step back even farther and so on. if none of that works than my guess is that he's using you and i would break up with him... but that's just me
2007-03-09 06:44:42 · answer #1 · answered by Devan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you are the most beautiful most special girlfriend he has when he isnt seeing his other girlfriend.Being so far away doesnt help matters either.If he cant at least e-mail you once a day then it shows he only cares for you when theres nothing else better going on.How many days did you say he hasnt e-mailed you?Another thing, how can he treat you like crap or anything when you arent together?The best thing to do is let him go, just be friends and hang out when he has time if you are both willing to settle for that.
2007-03-09 14:38:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like your not bf/gf and that your just "Seeing" each other 9 1/2 days with out a call or anything sound like he was a having a fling..seriously im a guy and can tell you know would ever do that if he's into the girl, if he's not in to her and into some one elese this will happen often as you are his always there chick the girl he can always relie on to be around in between flings also know as the inbetweener
you know the girl that you always hook up with inbetween other girlfreinds and breaking up with you for a few weeks and bak together again totally proves my theroy i bet he told he was seeing some one elese as well but you dont to tell us as we'll say break it off with him the best thing you can do though is that break it off if thats to hard then play his own game with him stay with him but keep an eye out for somthing better ...what girls really dont know though is this......guys are like the city bus if you miss one, another one will be right behind it .... so dont stress and dont fear if you could just leave him you'll find another in no time
2007-03-09 14:39:08 · answer #3 · answered by simpleton templton 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds that he is not into you, at least not the same way you are into him.
The only thing that is going to save you from going insane is to move on. Don't be disappointed if he doesn't show up tomorrow.
I seriously doubt that if you breakup you will ever have the same relationship with him if you remain friends. Is just too hard especially because of the way you feel about him.
2007-03-09 14:43:15 · answer #4 · answered by hayde_kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a tough one but if i was u id be gettin suspicious sorry but i would i broke up with my bf bout a mounth ago and we were going out 6yrs he did the dumpin i taught my life was over and i taught we would still be friends he used to treat me the same way as ur bf treats u found out the oter day he was cheatin on me my advice to u wud b get rid
2007-03-09 14:39:53 · answer #5 · answered by minnie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
long distance relationships never work out. did you stop to think that maybe he is two-timing you and has another girlfriend where he lives. end the relationship with him and find somebody closer to where you live
2007-03-09 14:53:37 · answer #6 · answered by ken s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with him... it's not worth it... just go back to being friends if you still want to know him...
2007-03-09 14:37:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you putting yourself through this? If he burns you once shame on him. If he burns you twice shame on you.
2007-03-09 14:36:29 · answer #8 · answered by Mrs. Bates 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋