I had this dream where me and my ex were talking and making plans to hang out, it was weird because, I'm sure he pretty much hates me right now, so the possibility of us talking is very limited. Also, I had another dream where I stole two of his cell phones, he figured out it was me and then I returned them and he wasn't even mad. It was weird, what do these mean? Serious responses only.
2007-03-09 06:11:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
It is very common for people to dream about ex-partners. Individuals that have been an important part of our lives continue to take up a part of our mind and heart. It is impossible to very dramatically shut the person out of thoughts and feelings. Just because the relationship ends does not mean that all is finished. You will continue to dream about your ex boyfriend until you "let go" of him on a very important level, or until you learned your lessons from that relationship. Either way, dreaming about your ex-romance does not predict future involvement. It may be wish-fulfillment, reliving memories, or working out old issues.
2007-03-10 13:19:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does he hate you? Do you feel guilty and wish that you never parted? Perhaps you have never thought of it that way. Does he have a good reason to not like you? What caused the breakup? Sometimes the 2nd time around is better because you know the weakness's. Remember, true love comes softly but sometimes theres trouble on the line and needs repair. You didn't see how before, but perhaps if you step back and take an objective look now in place of the emotional look before you'll see the real answer.
2007-03-09 14:27:18 · answer #2 · answered by KIB 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seeing an old ex-boyfriend from childhood in your dream, refers to a freer, less encumbered relationship. The dream servers to bring you back to a time where the responsibilities of adulthood (or marriage) didn't interfere with the spontaneity of romance. You need to recapture the excitement, freedom, and vitality of youth that is lacking in your present relationship. Dreaming that your ex-boyfriend is giving you advice about your current relationship, suggests that you unconscious is telling you not to repeat the same mistakes that you had made with this ex-boyfriend. Dreaming that you are being massaged by your ex-boyfriend, suggests that you need to let go of some of that defensiveness that you have been putting forth. You may have been putting up a wall or armor around you. You need to learn to trust people again. Dreaming that you ex-boyfriend gives you a stuffed animal, suggests that you are seeking for reassuring and nurturing aspects of a relationship. This is not to imply that you want you ex-boyfriend back. Alternatively, the dream could represent some immature relationship which may (or may not) describe the relationship you had with your ex. Dreaming that you see your ex-boyfriend dressed in a suit at a hospital, suggests that you have come to terms with that relationship and have completed the healing process.
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Dreaming that you are stealing indicates that you are deprived and where the stealing takes place (at home, the office, at school....) is indicative of your neediness. Alternatively, it may signify unrealized and unfulfilled goals. You may have set your goals too high.
2007-03-09 14:20:40 · answer #3 · answered by Gen•X•er (I love zombies!) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The dreams are reversed, in the first dream, you are showing your distrust in your ex, but in the second dream he is showing that he trust in you regardless of how you think about him. The point of the dream is that even though you trespassed against him, he forgave you. You demand of him and he asks of you
God is telling you that you must forgive to be forgiven
2007-03-09 14:26:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means that you are trying to work out unresolved feelings for him through your dreams. There is some guilt involved in how things ended and perhaps how they were communicated (cell phones). You just need to work things out for closure, sweetie.
2007-03-09 14:18:58 · answer #5 · answered by Kallan 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It probably represents your desire to gain independence from the relationship. You were probably accustomed to handing over a certain amount of control to your ex, and now your psyche is having a little trouble adjusting.
2007-03-09 14:19:02 · answer #6 · answered by NONAME 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like you're still connected to him. Sex has a way of doing that; it's the most thorough way of bonding with another person.
There's no real meaning to your dream, you just miss him.
2007-03-09 14:18:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it just means you really want to work things out with him as a friend so there are no hard feelings.
2007-03-09 14:14:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
do u still love your ex...
2007-03-09 14:15:34 · answer #9 · answered by Bobbie4u 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋