..and yet be happy about the decision no matter how restrictive ?
2007-03-09 06:07:46 · 9 answers · asked by pax veritas 4 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
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Voodoo.. – This kind of control is laid on the foundation of fear; there is wisdom in insecurity through exposure to gain familiarity: flexibility in dealing with possibilities tragic and empowering make feeling in control taskless.
Mdgca.. – Upon reaching a degree of maturity, one realises not all things can be under control. Ability to discern what one has control over and what one does not, inner peace is achieved.
Blueg.. – The need arising from a sense of control is a sign of insecurity; it restricts the person as the fear of loss of control is ever present. Confidence found within will bring realisation that control does not equate with security.
2007-03-16 06:01:45 · update #1
path .. – Control over all facets of life would be a prescription for defeat.
Izen .. – As above.
Maril.. – Undesirable uncharismatic trait. Control amounts to free will as mere confetti.
Crist.. – “I control what becomes me and what I seen has become me.”
emma .. – The feel of being in control and not necessarily actual control is required to focus on life's direction.
2007-03-16 06:02:20 · update #2
Rowan.. – One determines the pace and direction of their life.
2007-03-17 01:37:23 · update #3
No. This kind of control is layed on the foundation of fear. There is, however, wisdom in insecurity. To become comfortable with the unknown is, actually, one of the best ways to feel that one is in control. Understanding that security is possible but not pervasive, and, being flexible in dealing with possibilities both tragic and empowering make feeling in control taskless.
2007-03-09 06:18:44 · answer #1 · answered by voodooprankster 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The need to have control is a sign of insecurity. It is only when we find confidence within ourselves that we realise that control does not equate with security . It does not give us freedom , it does in fact restrict us. Therefore never giving us complete happiness just fear that we might lose that control.
2007-03-10 04:59:54 · answer #2 · answered by bluegirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily.
When we reach a certain level of maturity it becomes apparent to us (some of us) that not all things can ever be in our control.
Peace can come to us when we reach this place of understanding.
If you have no control over something, it's not your fault or responsibility when something goes wrong. This is very freeing....we are not to blame. A feeling of bliss follows this.
2007-03-09 14:57:43 · answer #3 · answered by diannegoodwin@sbcglobal.net 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If that is true of anyone, I do not want to be near the controller. If someone else is controlling us, we are merely puppets and free will amounts to only two words.
2007-03-14 16:51:59 · answer #4 · answered by Marilyn S 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I control what becomes me and what I seen has become me.
2007-03-15 10:48:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe I can't direct the wind, but I can set my sails.
2007-03-16 07:17:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, that would be a prescription for defeat.
2007-03-13 20:36:43 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no, you must feel in control of your destiny.
2007-03-15 16:56:49 · answer #8 · answered by emma s 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No
2007-03-14 19:27:50 · answer #9 · answered by Izen G 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋