He is really funny and caring. He wrote me a song and we have never been sexual. He makes me laugh. Has anyone had similar experiences and if so, did you fall in love?
2007-03-09 06:01:05 · 14 answers · asked by Debbie A 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes it is possible. a guy can be hott as heck...and a jerk at the same time. r u liable to fall in love with him just because hes cute? no. u meet a guy who is the opposite of that guy...but hes not hott. can u fall in love? yes. because love doesnt come about just from the appearnce but from the heart. when u look at that guy...u see someone caring and kind. but only because now that u have spent time with him...u know his heart. but when u look at him and not knowing the guy...u would turn ur head away in disgust at his face? why is that...because this world is afraid to take the time to love someone who doesnt look like them? u like this guy alot dont chu? yes u do....so who cares if he isnt attractive...true love can still exist between u 2, but only i f u ALLOW it to exist. if u dont wanna get any closer because of his unattractivness....then how can u come to love him if u dont even wanna REALLY get to know him? u can fall in love.....and who knows? maybe one day u might just find him attraactive...and maybe so will everybody else...and then everyone will want ur man....and they will all be jealous because hes hooked on u. =]
love can still be there....but u have to allow it to be there.
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2007-03-09 06:08:01 · answer #1 · answered by Teenager 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well here is the thing-there are many qualities that attract us to someone and physical appearance is one of them. However, many times personality can make up for a lack of attractiveness. I guess it just depends on how he makes you feel when you are with him. Does he make you happy? Laughing is a good sign, it's great when someone can make us laugh. Is there a particular thing that you don't find attractive? By this I mean maybe the way he dresses? That is something that can be changed but I guess the bottom line is, if you don't think he is cute and don't see a future with him it's important that you don't lead him to believe you two will have a future. Good luck.
2007-03-09 06:06:36 · answer #2 · answered by Olivia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will be very honest with you. I dated a boy (I was in high school at the time) but I was the "oh looks doesn't matter" type of gal. I dated a seriously unattractive guy and he was nice and all but I couldn't continue kissing him or call myself dating him because his lack of handsomeness was getting to me. But really though if he doesn't resemble Elephant Man or look like The Thing from Fantastic Four then I say give the man a chance. I give your boyfriend lots of credit for even writing you a song because my own fiancee hasn't even written me a song before!! lol
2007-03-09 06:08:43 · answer #3 · answered by Just get it over with already!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never know till you try. This guy sounds like he has all the attributes most women look for in men that they want to spend their life with. Looks are imp to a point, but then it is about heart and caring. Ask yourself, can you be faithful to this guy if some goodlooking bad boy comes along and wants a fling? If you care for him enough not to want to hurt him, then you definately have a chance of making it work.
2007-03-09 06:18:08 · answer #4 · answered by Pierre Patelin Longshanks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-14 14:53:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in love with a man who at first I didn't find very attractive, I though he had nice a nice look which gives him a good personality but he isn't Bratt Pitt lol, but he has a beautiful heart, he is very romantic, he writes me poems, he is very caring, he has good feelings, I haven't gotten sexual with him yet, but I bet he is very good at sex hahaha.
Just love him for his heart, for the things he does to you, he makes you happy etc, and then you'll find him attractive in all aspects. I think my man is pretty sexy haha.
2007-03-09 06:06:27 · answer #6 · answered by Jamie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, dont blow him, lust is not the answer. yes i have been in the same situation. and after awhile youll see past the outside and into the inside. and well for me, my first impression of people happends, and i think oh there not exactly good looking. but when you get to know the person, your outlook changes and you see them as the person who treats you well and understands you and your whole outlook changes. eventually you will see him differently and he may even start to become attractive to you. best of luck. hope this helped. and yes, you can fall in love as i did and am happy and married, also peoples looks change.
2007-03-09 06:08:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah u can. Too me that is the best kind of love because u wont get confused if its sexual attraction that u fell in love with. Its the person u fell in love with. His character, and to me thats the best love u can get. Because sometimes i get confused if im fallin for him or his good looks and good sex.
2007-03-09 06:07:12 · answer #8 · answered by gurllucky7 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. loving a person is not just about appearance. it's about feeling comfortable everytime you're around him, feeling loved, feeling secured and most important is if you're both happy being together. looks fade. but feelings don't.it doesn't matter if he's not attractive. when you get old, you will realize that it's the love that you get from him is what matters most. and also the love you give. good luck. god bless.
2007-03-09 06:08:24 · answer #9 · answered by K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are basing this on his physical appearance then NO u can not fall in love. U basically do not know what love is if u think it has anything to do with a persons physical appearance!!!
2007-03-09 06:05:32 · answer #10 · answered by Papi G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋