on the first date, I am uncomfortable because I feel that he is moving too fast, and after all I am looking for a committed relationship, not just quick sex. However I have met a guy online a couple years back to have an affair with (he's married) and I met him and was in bed with him an hour later with not nervousness at all. I am trying to meet someone for a serious relationship and don't want to get involved sexually to after marriage and don't feel comfortable being involved with 2 men at once in that way. I want my married man as a lover and I just want to meet a single guy to get to know and be friends, and lead to marriage. Am I weird if I get uncomfortable when a guy I just met wants to hold hands or kiss me? I am 40 years old but it makes me as uncomfortable as when I was a teenager since I really haven't dated that much.
2007-03-09 05:52:47 · 11 answers · asked by reallyfedup 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
is this a trick ?.
2007-03-09 05:57:52 · answer #1 · answered by ihate c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're whacked you know. You expect to carry on a purely sexual relationship with a married man and pretend to be chaste with a single guy & hope the single guy will marry you?
You're sleeping with a married man, what normal single guy will want to marry such a girl? You have a screwed sense of morals & behaviour. You need counselling as soon as possible.
2007-03-09 05:59:06 · answer #2 · answered by Bugsy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, the married man is obviously doing something the others aren't. I would suggest to the unmarried men that they offer you 20 bucks, like the married man does. That should cure your being "uncomfortable" and at the same time get the unmarried men 'anything they want'.
2007-03-09 06:26:19 · answer #3 · answered by Toeless_Joe_Jackson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not except he's used to walking together with his little sister/brother who desires to have their hand held! different than that he would purely be shy cos theres no way which you 'accidently' carry someones hand, he would purely be embarrased approximately it and thats why he pulls away!
2016-12-18 09:22:45 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont go with married men, sort that one out then deal with the rest!
2007-03-09 06:02:26 · answer #5 · answered by welcome2whereyouare 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you're a typical girl which is a total hypocrite when it comes to relationships.
2007-03-09 05:56:58 · answer #6 · answered by ark 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
at your age and experience I hardly think you could be uncomfortable at all...sounds like you've been down a lot of roads.....
2007-03-09 05:58:07 · answer #7 · answered by The Emperor of Ecstasy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're weird or what - I haven't decided yet.
2007-03-09 05:56:13 · answer #8 · answered by Brainiac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems you are terrified of commitment, not of being intimate to me....
2007-03-09 05:56:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wierdo...... getting involved with a married man is your first problem...
2007-03-09 05:57:18 · answer #10 · answered by curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋