My fiance is so wonderful to me and my little girl. Don't get me wrong I in no way want to leave him, but he has one thing that is driving me insane and I don't want it to tear us apart. His ex wife cheated on him. I have never cheated on him or had any intention of cheating on him, yet he looks through my stuff constantly, my phone, my mail, my car, my purse. We have had several fights just because he finds something that in his mind shouldn't have been there. I'm not a secrative person at all. I know he's looking and my opinion on it is I have nothing to hide at all so if that makes him feel better whatever. But he can't understand that if he finds something, I obviously didn't think it was a problem, because I know he's looking and he found it. Recently he saw an old sweatshirt with a phone number on it (company sweatshirt) from a guy that I used to see for a breif period of time. He swears that he's seen that number in my phone and jumped all over me about still being in contact
2007-03-09
05:49:36
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with him, I have not talked to him since about 2 months after I started dating my fiance ( he used to do a little work for my company) and now he's saying he's going to pull all my phone records and if he finds the number he's out. I'm not worried about him finding the number, cause its not there, but how can I get him to stop getting himself all worked up? He was really mad about it, and there's nothing to be mad about? He is a wonderful man and father, and he does so many wonderful things for me, and I love him dearly. He's honestly everythign I've ever wanted, I just wish he knew that.
2007-03-09
05:53:13 ·
update #1