My daughter came home and told me she was pregnant and going through morning sickness and her partner forced her to work regardless of how she felt. We tried to discuss with his parents but she was busy at home grooming her dog. After going through all the arguments he told her to have the baby and give him to raise if she doesn't want their baby. My daughter was disappointed for not getting his full support and his parents support and decided to have an abortion. She asked me to come with her although I was afraid of my own experienced I cried and tried to be strong but I grieve in silence. You donlt know the pain?
2007-03-09 05:44:29 · 8 answers · asked by hoyacraze 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Maybe you should tell your daughter
Let her make her own decisions
If you tell her your pain
Ask her where she believes live begins?
Conception? Birth?
Good luck
You can have her look into adoption
2007-03-09 06:42:59 · answer #1 · answered by Halo Mom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What did you expect his response to be? They are kids. Did she have the abortion? If not, you can support her and help her raise the baby or she can give it up for adoption. A teenager has no business raising a baby and you can't expect him to step up to the plate, he is a baby himself. I do, however, think his parents should have been more mature about it.
2007-03-09 13:53:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi, i am sorry to hear about this situation BUT i dont understand what it is that you are trying to get answer.... honestly i would go with your daughters choice.... one because she knows what is best for her and two if the daddy dont want anything to do with her right now, why would he stick around for the kid.... BUT i do feel your pain, i havent had an abortion BUT i am truely one who is not for it, i heard a lot about it... if you are willing to be her support then please be supportive of her choices... give her a list of pros and cons of having the baby and having an abortion.... good luck
2007-03-09 13:53:49 · answer #3 · answered by molly_tony 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think perhaps an abortion was the right thing for your daughter....that and getting the hell away from her current partner. When she is ready, she can have children
2007-03-09 13:53:33 · answer #4 · answered by motherhendoulas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look until your child feel better you make her keep her courage and keep her child you just be the good mother you are and help her out don't let her abort that child and as for him tell him to get a life
2007-03-09 14:48:04 · answer #5 · answered by Antinitra B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ohhh i feel so sad for you... if you daughter had a abortion she will be feeling the same as you....
that man was so selfish to treat her like that ... AND i pray that she will choose whom she wants in her life carefully.
2007-03-09 13:51:40 · answer #6 · answered by SAD NINA... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what's your question? .... Um... no I don't know your pain, and if I were you, I would've done more to protect my child.
2007-03-09 13:49:20 · answer #7 · answered by who-wants-to-know 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
i can feel your pain...reali...
2007-03-09 13:53:20 · answer #8 · answered by qIn ShI hUaNg 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋