i don't want to see a doctor or tell my parents but i think there might be somthing wrong, like three weeks ago i really upset my grandparents when i got angry @ them trying to run my life and so i trashed their place now they act scared of me which makes me real sad this isnt the only time somthing like this has happend it seems to be getting more and more frequent i have also started self harming my self but its like I'am a differnt person when i am doing it untill the pain kicks in. is this part of been a teen or do i need help?
2007-03-09 05:22:20 · 34 answers · asked by immortal_god 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
I have been doing it for years and im just fine. If you go to the doctor they are probably going to put you on happy pills and I personally would rather be mad and be myself.
2007-03-09 05:28:02 · answer #1 · answered by jw1269 3 · 1⤊ 4⤋
I'd go and see the Dr asap Sweetie, It sounds like you are having some real trouble controlling your emotions. Don't be ashamed or shy about discussing it with your Doc, I'm sure he/she's seen it all before.
As regards your Grandparents, I'm sure it will take a long time for them to trust you again, but that's no reason not to try and make up for what you did. Have you offered to repair the damage you made to their house or replace anything that may have been broken? You can only try and I'm sure they would appreciate your efforts. It takes a strong person to admit their faults, and (as one of the other answerers pointed out) taking responsibility for your actions would be a great start. I genuinely wish you al the best.
2007-03-09 05:33:37 · answer #2 · answered by lululaluau 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the others advice and see a doctor or counsular.
Please don't wait until something bad happens..You took the first right step and are asking questions about it. If it was normal behaviou you wouldn't have this question.
It's great you are aware of it and don't feel scared or bad when you seek help ok? All illnesses can be helped and the key is to get help at it's earliest sign. With any illness that goes untreated it only gets worse.
Good Luck and hang in there!
2007-03-09 05:34:00 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's NOT part of being a teen. You do need help. Acting out like that is wrong. Your violence will just get worse. And I'm sure your parents already know you trashed your grandparents' house.
Seeing a doctor is the only way for this to stop. But you have to WANT it to stop. If you don't participate in getting better---your parents can have you admitted to a psychiatric hospital. You don't want that---so tell them you want to get better.
2007-03-09 05:29:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you might be starting to have bipolar disorder. Early teens up to mid 20s usually is when you get it.
Does this sound like you:
1. frequent out bursts of anger
2. Agression
3. temper problems
4. sometimes you spend to much money
5. you have thoughts of sex frequently, go through periods when you have sex a lot / conversly do you have periods when you have abnormally low sex drive
6. do you talk to fast?
7 do you sometimes wonder what it would be like to die?
8. Sometimes do you feel like you are in so much emotional pain that you cannot even describe how awful you feel?
9. do you hurt people or things without realizing it?
10. do your sleep patterns change - sometimes you can't get up and some times you can't sleep?
If any one of the sounds like you, there is a distinct possibility you may be bipolar. There are good medications to help you and doctors to help your family deal with your disorder. It is hereditary, so you may have other members of your family wiht the disease and you can help light the way for others to find help.
Either way, it sounds like you are having some really abnormal behaviors. Go to a doctor. They will be able to help. Good luck!
2007-03-09 06:19:26 · answer #5 · answered by SweetiePie26 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well everybody gets a bit frustrated at times, but if it does continue then i suggest you tell your parents.
Firstly tell your grandparents that your ever so sorry and you didn't mean to your just under so much stress.
You might need to have anger management
don't worry, it will help you, my friend goes, an hour three times a week.
They talk to you about whats bothering you and do simple relaxing exercise's
seriously it's nothing to worry about
Before you do anything in future, take a couple of seconds to think, think of who you could be affecting, take a deep breathe.
If needbe look at google for breathing exercise's
good luck.
2007-03-09 05:29:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It normal for you to go into rage when you can't control a situation. I think that you should get help because your grandparents love you and will not tell you anything to hurt you. It was wrong of you to trash their place. You may have some depression issues. I think that you should seek professional help. It's a lot of people inflicting pain on themselves so they should have something to help you before you hurt someone that you really care about.
Good Luck
2007-03-09 05:33:51 · answer #7 · answered by starla 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To my experience it is not natural. harming your self is the prove of it. You might have a very serious mental problem. if you don't tell anyone it will get worse. if you do tell your parents they will do what is best for you. if you r OK you will be satisfied but if you r not OK then it would be the best for you to start taking it seriously. as you have asked this question it seems to me that you are responsible and clever guy. everything will feel really cool once you talked about it with your parents. you will feel lighter and happier. good luck
2007-03-09 05:45:53 · answer #8 · answered by shamshad 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As everyone is saying, yes, you do need help. Ask your doctor to see a psychologist. If you don't want to ask your own quack, you can look in the Yellow pages, and you will find hundreds of Psychologists.
You may not need medication, or you might. but I think you definately need to talk to someone proffessional.
A prof will find out the root of the cause of your behaviour, and help you. every weekk, once a week for however long is needed.
Try talking to your family, explain your fears and ask them for help.
As your elders, they are obliged to help you. But if they wont, see a psychologist. It's there job, thier expertise.
I am sure you are a normal healthy teen, we all need someone to talk to.
Good luck
Nyms
2007-03-09 05:38:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi i would ave to say you need some help,but it doesnt neccesarily mean tablets just talkin can do a lot of good,teacher,parent,doctor school councillor someone you feel comfortable with and trust,but please get some help dont suffer alone.Its perfectaly normal to feel a bit out of control when a teenager but it seems you just need some guidance to help you through it.Your not goin mad,it might be that someone or something is pushing you to far and this is the only way you know how to cope.just confide in someone and i wish you the best!
2007-03-09 05:44:08 · answer #10 · answered by redraz21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Emotional turmoil is a part of being a teenager. Having said that I must say that you seem to have a problem. Overreacting like that (especially at your grandparents) is not acceptable. You need to speak to someone or seek professional help. This could turn out to be a bigger problem than you think.
Good luck!
2007-03-09 05:29:50 · answer #11 · answered by greenfan109 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋