heartbreaks make you sad/depressed.
but i find after that period I get this feeling of
fighting back and the depression fades. is this a chemical thing (euphoria,adrenalin) or is it just a state of mind.
2007-03-09 05:10:05 · 10 answers · asked by canuckclint 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
About getting stronger or not after heartbreaks, it's depends to everyone mind. How their perspective about it. Are you saw the positive side or the negative?
But I think after your heart heal from the heartbreaks you'll find that yourself could be fine again although you've felt the most painful and it's the most important thing so you can change yourself to be a stronger person.
2007-03-09 05:46:10 · answer #1 · answered by white jade 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe the state of mind releases chemicals that create sadness and/or depression. The good thing I hear you saying is that you have the feeling of wanting to fight back! It's a good sign if you use it constructively and not to hurt your ex, but rather to make you stronger to go on, turn the page to the next chapter and move on to other things that will fulfill you. This is using your anger in a positive way. The stages of what you've felt are pretty typical after heartbreak. Frustration, sadness, depression, anger, re-building and then changes to a better situation that make you feel better. Good luck.
2007-03-09 05:17:34 · answer #2 · answered by Inquisitive 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have absolutely no idea what it is but i think is true. after a heartbreak i find my self sad but in a while the sadness goes away and i feel stronger than ever. like with a desire to start over again... but i still dont like heartbreaks i prefer been week if thast a way of getting stronger. lol thank god i havent had a heart break in 2 years and now im doing really good with my bf.
2007-03-09 05:16:45 · answer #3 · answered by Blondie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heartbreak does make us stronger if we let it. It can also drive us to our knees if we let it. Hurt people just heal funny sometimes. Its kinda like walking with a limp.
2007-03-09 05:19:37 · answer #4 · answered by Devdude 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes absolutely they make us stronger n heart-breaks r a part of growin up if it is taken in the right spirit...it definately helps one to become a better person tomorrow, but if it't took otherwise it may lead to depression n stuff related 2 that but i say one shud not refuse 4 a lil' rain if one is expecting a rainbow to come in one's way! gud luck.
2007-03-09 05:20:58 · answer #5 · answered by Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just a state of mind, actualy i feel it really think it makes you stronger,as you could probably withstand another heartbrake ,not that i want you to have another one but just to be sure.
2007-03-09 05:17:17 · answer #6 · answered by lee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ah yeah, necessary part of life... you'll be ok. No point in being depressed forever.
2007-03-09 05:15:16 · answer #7 · answered by Pedro Sanchez 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah they do make you stronger and it is your brain fighting to become normal again
2007-03-09 05:13:56 · answer #8 · answered by Sm@rtAs$ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure, but i know how you feel. its defiantly made me stronger.
2007-03-09 05:14:19 · answer #9 · answered by SHY1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes they do. it made me alot stronger and also it makes you more wiser
2007-03-09 05:46:24 · answer #10 · answered by loonygirl46 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋