weekends together...the last 7 weekends...and it has become physical again. He is more a man of actions instead of words...so I can't ask to define the relationship. I know him...and that is not his style...do you think that we are back together now?
2007-03-09 05:05:36 · 16 answers · asked by :-) 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, definitely!
2007-03-09 05:10:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be very careful. The two of you broke up for a reason and you have to be reminded of that reason. Just because he brought you food and spending the weekend with you does not mean that he wants to be back together. Before you fall even deeper, ask yourself this question: Is it worth for you to be back together when he has broken your heart before? You might say that he's the same but people change, especially between exes. He could probably just be concern as a friend or he's in that "break-up sex" phase. You have to make it clear with him. Remember, first time's a pain, second time's hell.
2007-03-09 05:14:45 · answer #2 · answered by MimiUdang 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't ask him and aren't sure, yet you are the one involved with him, what makes you think total strangers that don't know you would have any idea?
You're spending time together, having sex, he brought you food when you were sick...sounds like it's more than just physical but if you want a label for it, you'll have to find a way to talk to him about it.
Communication is a key to any successful relationship.
2007-03-09 05:15:24 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I would definitely assume that your ex still cares about you deeply. I'm not one that finds it easy to put my feelings into words, so I would just simply ask if he's interested in getting together again. If he just wants to be a "friend w/ benefits," then it's up to you to continue the relationship in that direction. If you choose to go that route, make sure you're protected!!! You have to take control of your own life and relationships, so you need to just ask. What's the worst he could say? No? At least you'd know in advance rather than 3 yrs into it and it would just be setting yourself up for disappointment.
2007-03-09 05:12:44 · answer #4 · answered by sweet libra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U really need to sit down and talk to him cz he may not be on the same page as u.
The only real way u will find out is by talking.
Sex is sex and if it good Damn.
But u can't go by that alone.
Don't fool Ur self cz u might miss out on a better opportunity..
Good luck....
2007-03-09 05:19:54 · answer #5 · answered by Natural 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he may not be a man of words.. but doesnt hurt to ask one simple question.. are we back together? and his answer is yes or no... you should ask yourself can you be with him.. if hes not communicative.. a little question like this and you cant ask him... what about life forward for you two. it will hurt the relationship.. but if you can live without this then good for you... everything else sounds good...
2007-03-09 05:10:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should ask him. That seems like more of a problem you would have with a girl. Aren't guys a little more open when you are questioning the status of your relationship? It should be obvious when you interact with each other where your allegiances lie.
2007-03-09 05:09:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
so this is a gay relationship, since your avatar is male?
Ehm... yeah I guess u guys are back together, not sure what else u need from him.
2007-03-09 05:10:22 · answer #8 · answered by Pedro Sanchez 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah i would say you are except he has free reign on dating at home during the week. I would ask him ,even if its not his style it can be yours. It's your damn heart.
2007-03-09 05:10:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont think about it too hard, at least you're getting some
2007-03-09 05:09:06 · answer #10 · answered by nyckib 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋