Do u have the surgery so that one day u could have another baby, r do u just let it go, knowing that your baby was your last baby?
2007-03-09 04:58:48 · 8 answers · asked by Keira H 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
I'm so sorry for what happened to you.
I really hate sterilization b/c there is always a big risk of regrets (not to mention unpleasant sideeffects) later and reversal can be difficult.
I would say you should definitely investigate having the procedure reversed. http://ccli.org/nfp/contraception/tubal.php (an article on tubal ligation)
The Couple to Couple League (CCLI.org) may be able to point you in the direction of a good doc for reversal.
Good luck and my prayers are with you.
2007-03-09 05:07:59 · answer #1 · answered by Kari 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes sorry for your loss. I would go get the surgery so you can have another baby! That has to be really hard. Personally I don't think anyone should ever get fixed because of the fact that certain things happen. Whether the loss of a child or just changing your mind someday. Good luck and again sorry for your loss.
2007-03-09 05:06:20 · answer #2 · answered by dinkle_fritz81 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This has played through my head so many times, i have 2 sons, 2 step sons, and im 25 weeks with another boy. Pregnancy brings on so many worries, After this one i am planning on getting my tubes tied. The other day i was thinking well what if something happens to this baby, SIDS or something that will take him away forever. Could i live with never having another child. I came to peace with this. First off if something were to happen to my child i would be lost, i dont know what i would do, how i would feel, or how i would cope. BUT on the same hand i would feel even worse be having another baby, i would feel like i was trying to replace my son. And i dont want that. I dont like that idea. This is my last child and if something were to happen, it is still my last child. Its hard to face and think about things like this but its reality and its part of life, if god wants to bless me with another son thats wonderful, if he wants to take him from me, At least i know hes with God. He would always be in my heart.
2007-03-09 05:53:10 · answer #3 · answered by jess_n_flip 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That's such a hard thing. I haven't experienced that, so I can't say for sure how I'd answer it, but I do know that I have always wanted to adopt. If I never gave birth to another child, I would be disappointed but I could deal with it because I plan to adopt no matter what.
2007-03-09 05:06:06 · answer #4 · answered by Amanda M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! that is sad! If that has happened to you, I am so sorry. I would have surgery to have another one, not as a replacement tho. You wanted a kid to love and now God had better palns for hin or her so now you can have another one. I hope that this helps. If you decide not to have another one, you might want to see a counselor to help you with your ideal. Talking helps. God Bless.
2007-03-09 05:05:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you feel the need to have another baby then get your tubal ligation reversed. If you get pregnant then it was meant to be. If not then that's way it was suppose to be. Sorry for what you had to go through and your loss.
2007-03-09 05:06:20 · answer #6 · answered by bbwg_hbic 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all, I'm sorry for your loss....If you want another baby, have the surgery so that you can do that.
2007-03-09 05:03:02 · answer #7 · answered by sundragonjess 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't be able to
2007-03-09 05:03:27 · answer #8 · answered by For_Gondor! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋