In western culture boyfriends/girlsfriends are live in . Living togather for 3-4 yeras in name of knowing compatibility. having sex & everything loosing verginity & then no marriage because you are not compatable to me.
Were boys not able to decide before taking girls verginity? Girls keep on doing lots of things for them that one day they will propose. Days , months & years passes for waiting for the proposal. Sometimes may have 2-3 child but no proposal. What is this? Is it not just exploitation of the women.? After sex physically she will never be the same. They lost their verginity . They are like used clothes not like new clothes. After loosing verginity & they will think somebody looted them if the verginity taker did not married them. They will have nightmare for this man for their whole life because they were not compatable for marriage but they were compatable for sex for several years.
A ON THEIR HEART & MIND FOR WHOLE LIFE.
2007-03-09 04:56:39 · 12 answers · asked by Nancy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
exploitation, why heck no, it's liberation!!!! She TOO after 2-3 children can say "we're not compatable"
2007-03-16 17:23:00 · answer #1 · answered by Gardner? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Living with a guy is a waste of time when there aren't firm wedding plans. Pregnancy when living with a guy is a bad thing too - the couple should have been married, like, yesterday. Somehow, these things never get done and they go sliding along into roommate status with sex on the side. Not a great beginning for the family of an innocent baby who needs security. Inevitably, grandparents wait in the wings, aware that they will have to bear the financial burden or take the mother and child in because the mother has to earn a living.
I think it is exploitation of women, too. But it is exploitation that they quite stupidly seek, taking their cue from feminists who told them that marriage is shackles and they don't need men.
Somewhere, those feminists are hiding under a rock. Usually a rock in New York City.
I wish women (particularly young girls who make this mistake so young, sacrificing their futures) would wise up. It is not going to happen without a vast culture change, sorry to say. Religious groups and institutions can have some influence but I believe the real change will take place when the economy is so bad that women are forced to see that they need to be smarter in the choices they make.
2007-03-17 04:52:03 · answer #2 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
simply by fact men & women folk are closer to equivalent interior the west it somewhat is not exploitation of the female. Western women folk recover from this subject oftentimes situations much less annoying than men do. And maximum western men do not care in the event that they marry a virgin, they do exactly not prefer person who has been with 20 men. wish that helps.
2016-10-17 23:16:54 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being biology your subject, you definitely know that taking virginity is not essential reason to decide about life partner, as sexual experience is same with any type of girls. Poor non understanding girls do not know that boys demand for intercourse is only for their amusement, and not a love with compassion. True lover seek girl's beauty not in her body parts but parts of her intellectual mind, knowledge of life and most importantly beautiful heart. That is why in Hindus sexual intercourse is not allowed before marriage and it is very correct and religious. In fact sex is temporary and love is for 24 hours, so how can it be the same. We don't need sexual education as every body like and speak about to day but education of life partner and marriage. By nature animals don't need sex education then why human? It is just to attract and arouse sensual feelings and there is not much knowledge to get as it is simple and natural.
2007-03-17 01:34:36 · answer #4 · answered by vishw_paramaatmaa_parivaar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with this. In the western world men come and go as they please. They get to test the waters and find someone that they think will please them for life but in due process of doing this use and hurt alot of women who will never be in tack again but the male will just go on with his life not worried. There are not many women left in the western world these days that hold themselves for marriage or have the old morals and self worth anymore.
2007-03-09 05:08:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
dear friend ..yes , its happening ..i agree
and may god save all dear women(my sisters and friends and mothers) from such exploitations.
but i think its more important to think ...why do such things happen...and whats the reasons for that.
are there any societies wwhere its not happening...we may hide our answers but yes , there are a lot of societies wwhere its not happening.
well and keep in mind
poverty and getting fame without any struggle .
and trying to earn a lot of money in short time.
all these are the contributory factors.
alcohol drinking may also be a cause factor
i hope i answered question.
i am doctor of medicine. and my name is dr tayyab rehamn
2007-03-17 04:52:51 · answer #6 · answered by greatmangentletrue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in western culture, sex is generally more open, casual and thought of more progressively. the general consensus is not that a woman is "used clothing" [or whatever metaphor you tried to use] if she isn't a virgin anymore. and many [if not most] women do not marry the man who took their virginity and are not, in fact, haunted by this and disrespected by everyone because of this.
2007-03-09 05:16:45 · answer #7 · answered by nelo c 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
yes excessive freedom to the youth, dating, indiscriminate relations have made the life of Western women so very unstable...
the other threat to their stable life is divorce... that are so very frequent... enough is enough... they should bring some changes in order to safeguard the interests of the western girls...
2007-03-12 18:59:49 · answer #8 · answered by Harish Jharia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
women lose their virginity because it is their choice,, but in your culture you think only the bad side of things.
2007-03-17 03:29:56 · answer #9 · answered by wongfiehung2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am agree with u this should not happen...this is not the way in this way they are realy exploited in the name of love marriage...this is not the love this is not the way....
2007-03-16 05:27:23 · answer #10 · answered by Paddy.da.heartwinner 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋