I've been in this relationship for 1 yr 6mo. To make a long story short; He accussed me of cheating for along time in the beginning of our relationship (because I had alot of friends before I met him) I stopped talking to everyone as far as males go so there wouldn't be any b.s. for nothing.
Now, I am cheating on him and I think he knows.
I do care about him alot although we have alot of diffrent point of views in general.
What should I do?
2007-03-09 04:47:11 · 22 answers · asked by michelle m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
break up with the poor guy, its not his fault your cheating.
2007-03-09 04:50:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would trust your woman's intuition that he knows. He may not, but he probably has a "feeling." I don't thin you "care about him a lot" since you're cheating on him. Case & point.
How do you feel about the new guy? If you like him, break things off with the old BF and keep on with the new guy.
I would STRONGLY suggest NOT cheating in the future, and just work on one relationship at a time. It's best for all involved...that includes you. I'm not trying to be prude or something, but with STD's and such, it's best to becareful. I also don't want to see you on some talk show doing paternity tests to determine the baby's daddy.
2007-03-09 04:57:25 · answer #2 · answered by Voice_Of_Reason 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you weren't cheating in the beginning, you just destroyed your relationship with him by cheating now. i know it's hard when someone accuses you of something you didn't do, you might want to think, "he already thinks i'm a cheater, what's the point?" but you had a golden opportunity to prove that you're not a cheater, albeit a little friendly. but instead you did the very thing he suspected. if i were you, i'd tell the truth and break up with your boyfriend and the guy you're cheating on him with. have no contact with the guy you cheated with. if you want to continue dating, try to do better next time. you need a fresh start if you don't want to be classified as a cheater. but when you do go into your next relationship, you owe it to that person to tell them that you did cheat at one point but that you were sorry for it, and are determined to never do that to someone again. good luck :)
2007-03-09 05:10:40 · answer #3 · answered by jenn w 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop cheating on him..and dump him..you need to tell him the real reason why, and hopefully he won't get too badly hurt, though it could do a number on him. If you care so much about him, you shouldn't have cheated...looks like you'll be spending alot more time than before with the person you're cheating on him with...you should listen to the old saying "cheaters never win"
2007-03-09 04:51:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh Dear *sigh*
It is quite common for someone to be accused of something that they then end up doing but this is no excuse.
You are playing with fire and will end up making someone who was obviously already paranoid even worse for his next GF.
You need to finish both relationships before they blow up in your face.
I think you need some time alone/single don to sort your head out before embarking on a new relationship because your infidelity may become habitual which you will find hard to break out of...even in a completely different relationship.
Please do something quickly.
2007-03-09 04:58:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are cheating on him, then you are obviously not happy with the relationship. So you have two choices: either leave him and become a single girl, or come clean and stop cheating. He may or may not want to work on the relationship.
2007-03-09 05:11:26 · answer #6 · answered by Melissa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are cheating on him it's already over. There's nothing to talk about because when he finds out it's all over. You should just tell him that you aren't happy with him anymore, because you obviously aren't, and just break it off. It's not fair to you him or the other person to keep dancing between guys. I'm sure your bf will be upset but he's going to be even more upset if he finds out on his own.
2007-03-09 04:55:46 · answer #7 · answered by Vince R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are being selfish. you need to break it off with the other guy or your boyfriend. how would you feel if the roles were reversed. women always snappin how they want a good faithful man and then they go and start cheating. grow and be a woman. dont mean to sound like a bitc h its just tough love
2007-03-09 04:55:58 · answer #8 · answered by peachez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you are cheating on him now,your best bet is to confront him and tell him its over...you dont need to say you found someone else just tell him that things are not going the way you hoped it would ...good luck
2007-03-09 04:53:59 · answer #9 · answered by poker_guru4life 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ur stupid y would u cheat on the boy u like if u like him be with him or chose the boy the u like the most that makes u laugh and have a good time and be happy have a bf thats wants u to hang out with who ever u want to with out thinking ur cheating on him
good luck...
2007-03-09 04:53:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You care about him & you cheat on him? Doesn't sound like love to me. End it so you can both go on with happier lives. You know it's going to end soon cos he knows about your affair. And yes, you are protecting your own feelings, not his. Cos if you were protecting his feelings, you wouldn't be cheating on him in the first place.
2007-03-09 04:51:35 · answer #11 · answered by Bugsy 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋