ok you see I was with my bf and we were making out etc....then he started pressing up agaisnt me he told me "I want you" in my ears then he started to hurt me hes 18 and hes is very strong(Hes a boxer)and I love him weve been together now for a LONG time but this wasnt like him today.
So I told him "yr hurting me stop" then he didnt i had to really scream to get his attention so is this normal he said he was sorry he didnt mean to hurt me but why was he like this?please help with some advice please!!!! 10 points!!
2007-03-09 04:40:42 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Raging hormones.
Start carrying a stun-gun.
2007-03-09 04:44:40 · answer #1 · answered by Gaspode 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I am a very aggressive person sexually and usually so are my mates. If he has not displayed this behavior in the pass it can be many answers to explain this one. From my own experience with people around me it could be that he is lusting after another and projecting it on you or that you are now just starting to see his true side. You must remember the older you get things seem more clearer then when you are younger. My key advice to you is to always use your instincts and always trust yourself. You know that this is not normal for him. To be dating him for a while he too should know that you are not a aggressive person. It should have never taken more then once to tell him to stop. He seems a little selfish to consider his own needs instead of yours don't you think? Watch out for that one!!!!!!
2007-03-09 12:51:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is 18 and a boxer and in good physical shape he probably has alot of testosterone, and while this behavior is not acceptable it is to be espected. At times the urges are so strong that they overpower mens reasoning skills, and with excess testosterone, it is hard to control. If you continue in this relationship you will need to adjust to this. If you do not want ruff play every once in a while, find a boyfriend who is in the chess club, not the boxing club.
2007-03-09 12:49:39 · answer #3 · answered by maxexposure2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how did he hurt you? By squeezing you? If that's the case he wants to get in your pants. Unfortunatly it's normal but you should stay away for a little while. dont be alone with him anymore because the more you resist the more persistant he will get. Also make sure you have a serious talk with him make sure that you set him straight. If you are like me and you dont want to have sex till your married you should leave him now. REMEMBER dont let him get to touchy.
2007-03-09 12:52:28 · answer #4 · answered by friend of a friend 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since he is a boxer; it sounds like he might be taking supplements like steroids or Protein mixes to build muscle and lean himself down. All this contributes to an over aggressiveness which is sometimes displayed when men are aroused.
Similar situation with Mike Tyson... etc...
it may get worse... if it happened once it may happen again and become more aggressive.
Not a normal thing to do... Good Luck
2007-03-09 12:47:01 · answer #5 · answered by raecliff95 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's on steroids. They make people act out of normal character and become more sexually forward. Talk to him about it but only in an environment that you feel safe. Like a restaurant, at his home or your home, with your PARENTS there. Be safe. The second that you don't feel safe walk (or run) away. You shouldn't be scared or afraid for your safety in a relationship.
2007-03-09 12:47:03 · answer #6 · answered by Mrs. Bates 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That isnt not cool at all... you sound a lot younger than him. The main reason that I think that is bad is because obviously you are a minor and he is an adult so he could go to jail. Tell him when you say stop you mean stop and if it happens again then you should leave him alone
2007-03-09 12:45:56 · answer #7 · answered by The Worrywart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, boys can jst totaly change in a matter of sec. if u com on a date and u look realy hot and u gys r mak'n out and yall r so into it... yes, the gy will do that. mak'n out can b dangerous... caz it's not jst the gy, smtimes gurls might get more serious... my X wz lyk tht once, and 2 tell u th truth, i lykd it! but... gys can change cz makin out is jst the key to more stuff... been there, done that
2007-03-09 12:50:16 · answer #8 · answered by red_lolipop 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He thought he could take advantage of you. He was wrong.
Hon, unless he was on drugs, that isn't the last time he will do this. I recommend breaking up NOW before he has a chance to REALLY hurt you.
2007-03-09 12:46:13 · answer #9 · answered by Ask Aunt Amy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he was extra horny or someting I guess. Do you mean that he was hurting you when you guys were having sex? If that's the case then maybe he was just feeling you at that moment and just had to have you. But if he hurt you then he does have to be more considerate of your feelings.
2007-03-09 15:13:32 · answer #10 · answered by ltwatkins77 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not ready for sex then you need to be more moderate in your activities that can lead to sex. Guys have a strong sex drive and there is a point where it becomes hard to control.
2007-03-09 13:10:51 · answer #11 · answered by Click 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋